What sets you apart?

Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

There are so many ways to be unique. Some are cool. Some are strange. Some are illegal. But let’s not focus on those right now. In my opinion the following three things are part of the equation.

1. Authenticity. It took me a little while, but I finally came to a place where I would rather be me. I don’t need to compare myself to others. Me is good. God made me. He has a plan for me. I will be me and follow the plan.

2. Compassion. My life is not just about me. It is about taking care of those around me. My family. My friends. People that God puts in my path. I always want to look in the mirror and see a man who can have compassion on others.

3. Sense of humor. I love to laugh. I try to do it as often as possible. Laughter is medicine. If I don’t laugh often I can get too bogged down with life. That is why I seek out opportunities to laugh with my wife. See my post from a few days ago.

These are his three of the things that make me unique. The list is long and could keep going. The point is the list is me. This is who I am and aspire to be. Me. And I want to make God smile. So me, following God’s plan.

Tired but content

It has been one of those weeks. There has been a ton of activity. There has been accomplishments and setbacks. It has been busy and frustrating. You know what I mean right? Just one of this weeks.

I started a new training program this week. I just completed day 7 of VShred. It kicked my butt. I thought I was in decent shape. I have been lifting for a couple years consistently now, so I expected to fair a bit better. (The flip side is if I hadn’t been working out, how much worse would it be?) It has been an adventure for sure.

Even though it was different, I did it. Even though it was tough, I did it. I was tired, but I got it done. I am proud of that. I am tired, but content. I like that feeling.

Now to week 2. Let’s do it again, only better.

Her laugh is amazing

What makes you laugh?

I have an admission to make. I have a TikTok account. I know, half of America does, but it still feels like a dirty little secret. “You have a TikTok? Are you ok?” This is the response I expect when people find out.

Yes. I watch for a very specific reason: I find videos I know will make my wife laugh. A couple of times a week we will spend 20 minutes or so watching them. I have a pretty good knack for finding good ones, but every once in a while I strike gold.

What is the gold you ask? Her laugh. You know that kind where it is hard to breath and your eyes start to sweat? That uncontrollable belly laugh of high enjoyment? Yep. That is it. Pure gold.

So, what usually gets laughs like this? It varies from day to day, but it usually involves a dog or cat and the awesome personalities they exude. Or, it could be a kid swinging a ball bat and hitting his dad in the…you know…or a ton of other things.

Her laugh is one of the sweetest sounds on earth to me. It brings me joy. It calms me. It makes me fall for her deeper and deeper…and we have been at this for almost 25 years. I just can’t get enough.

When she is laughing I want to join in. So, what makes me laugh? Making my bride laugh.

Keep moving forward

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. – Dale Carnegie

I don’t like failing. If I am honest, I hate it. You start with grand plans and then you fall on your face. Or, you knew something was going to be a certain way, but it didn’t materialize. Have you been there too?

It is easy to see failure as finality. Like if we fail we will be stuck there permanently. It Amy even keep us from wanting to try. I am reminded of this quote:

Remember that failure is an event, not a person. Yesterday ended last night, and today is a brand-new day. – Zig Ziglar

This quote reminds us that failure is something that happens to us, but it doesn’t define who we are as people. We learn from it. We keep moving forward.

I will leave you with a quote from Dennis Whitley:

Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker. Failure is delay, not defeat. It is a temporary detour, not a dead end. Failure is something we can avoid only by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.

Keep moving toward your goal. I am going to do the same.

More than you realize

When you look in the mirror, what do you see? Do you see someone who is strong, capable, and confident? Or do you see someone who is weak, unsure, and filled with fear? It’s easy to get caught up in our own doubts and insecurities. It is easy to think we will never overcome. But, if you are like me,  that is not where we choose to stay.

You have more strength than you realize.

Life can be tough, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the challenges we face. But the fact is that you have already overcome so many obstacles in your life, and you can find the strength and resilience to face whatever comes your way. Take a moment to reflect on all the times you have overcome adversity, and remember what got you through.

For me, God is who has gotten me through. I have strength because He gives it to me.

You are more than your fears.

Fear is a powerful emotion that can hold us back from achieving our goals and living our best lives. But the reality is that fear is often just an illusion. We are afraid of the unknown, of failure, of rejection, but these fears are often unfounded. By acknowledging our fears and facing them head-on, we can begin to exert power over them. When you have been faced with fear, what got you through?

For me, the answer is God. Every time.

You can achieve if you start where you are and put in the work.

Achieving success requires hard work, dedication, and perseverance. But it’s important to remember that success is not a destination; it’s a journey. You don’t have to have it all figured out right now. Start where you are, with what you have, and take small steps every day towards your goals. With time and effort, you will get there. Keep your eye on the prize. Keep moving forward. What is the prize you are after?

For me, it is making God smile. I want to achieve. I want to grow. I want Him to be proud of me.

In conclusion, it’s important to remember that you have more strength than you realize, and that you are capable of achieving great things. Don’t let fear hold you back from living the life you are meant to live. Embrace your strengths and face your fears. Make God smile. You will be glad you did.