Most relationship problems aren't about toothpaste or love languages. They're about someone who won't let the person they chose change them. I married at 20, before I'd set, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Autonomy Is a Lie
Still Out There at Two O’Clock
I manage projects for a living, and I still estimated my lumber rack wrong. I planned the build and forgot the part where it has to go on the wall.
Servant Leadership Only Works If You Know Why
Servant leadership is a buzzword at work and at church. It means the same thing in both places, but only if you know why you're doing it.
Whose Book Is It?
A commenter told me that using AI at all means I'm not being creative. Here's where I think the real line is, and exactly where I stand on it.
The Gobstopper Test
The 1971 Willy Wonka was already a reality competition, and every kid who lost, lost on character. Netflix is running the same test on adults. So is every office.
