Editing Life

7-40 Challenge | 6-22-2026


I cut almost half of my first novel in editing. Scenes I loved. Lines I was proud of. Whole subplots I’d spent weeks building. Every cut made the book better.

This round, I did the same thing to my year.


I started 2026 with a list of everything I wanted to build. Two novels became six books. A blog became a content machine. An AI idea became three competing products. A business, a course, a manifesto, a personal data model, a half-dozen story concepts. All of it good. All of it possible. None of it focused.

So I started cutting.

The Data Model book — cut. Three novel concepts I was excited about — pushed to next year. A product name I’d fallen in love with — killed when I found the trademark conflict. An entire AI course framing — scrapped and rebuilt twice. A round I wasn’t satisfied with — reviewed and reinvented.

Every one of those cuts stung a little. And every one of them made the year better.


The things you cut aren’t failures. They’re the cost of focus. A story that tries to be everything is a story about nothing. A year that tries to do everything accomplishes nothing.

The hard part isn’t adding. Anyone can add. Adding feels like progress — more projects, more ideas, more plates spinning. The hard part is looking at something good and saying “not this, not now,” because you’ve decided what the story is actually about.


My first novel got better when I stopped protecting the parts I loved and started serving the story. My year is getting better the same way.

Father’s Day

7-40 Challenge | Round 4, Day 36


Today is Father’s Day, and Round 4 of the challenge ends today. I’m spending it with my family, which is exactly where it should be spent.

The work will be there tomorrow. The planning for Round 5 starts soon, and I’m genuinely looking forward to it — there’s a lot I want to build. But not today.

Today I get to just be a dad and a husband. Everything I’m working toward is, at the end of the day, in service of the people I’ll be sitting with this afternoon.

Happy Father’s Day.

Ten Thousand

7-40 Challenge | Round 4, Day 35


BiblePictures365 hit 10,000 followers on Instagram today.

On January 1, I had zero. No audience. No following. No track record. Just an idea — one image per chapter, every day for a year reading through the whole Bible— and enough stubbornness to start posting before anyone was watching.

589 posts later, ten thousand people showed up.


I didn’t run ads. I didn’t game an algorithm. I didn’t go viral on purpose — though one post hit 400,000 views and that certainly helped. What I did was post every single day without exception and let the reps do what reps do.

The pictures got better because I made one every day. The engagement grew because the consistency gave people something to come back to. The audience built itself because I kept showing up.


Ten thousand people didn’t show up just because of one great post. They showed up because of 583 unremarkable decisions to do it again.

Less Famous, More Trusted

7-40 Challenge | Round 4, Day 34


Seth Godin dropped nineteen points about marketing in the age of AI. Three of them stopped me cold.


“Stop trying to be famous. The goal is not to get more famous. The goal is to get less famous and more trusted.”

I’ve spent most of this year building things. The volume has been relentless. But the question I keep dodging is whether the people I’m reaching actually trust me, or whether they’re just watching me build.

Those are different things. An audience watches. A community trusts. I don’t need more people watching. I need more people who’d notice if I stopped.


“Stop trying to reach everyone. Start trying to deeply serve someone specific.”

A few weeks ago I wrote about looking for my Soho people — the small group of readers who’d grab my work and carry it forward. I’ve been thinking about it wrong. I’ve been looking outward for them when some of them are already here, reading this blog, following the Bible pictures, checking in on the challenge. I just haven’t asked them what they need.

Serving someone specific means knowing them well enough to build something they’d miss. Not something they’d scroll past — something they’d miss.


“How do I become the kind of business that people would genuinely miss if it disappeared tomorrow? That answer is your entire marketing strategy.”

That’s the only question that matters. Not how do I get more attention. Not how do I go viral. Not how do I crack the algorithm. Would anyone miss this if it were gone?

I don’t know the answer yet. But I know it lives deeper with the people who are already here — not louder toward the ones who aren’t.

Intent

7-40 Challenge | Round 4, Day 33


Before you say anything — to your spouse, your team, your AI — there’s a question worth answering first: why are you opening your mouth?

Are you trying to understand something? Are you trying to be understood? Are you trying to win? Are you trying to find the truth? The answer changes everything that comes after it.


I’ve watched the same conversation go two completely different directions depending on intent. When I walk into a discussion at work trying to prove I’m right, I stop listening the moment someone pushes back. The conversation becomes a contest. The outcome is whoever talks louder or gives up first.

When I walk in trying to find the right answer — even if it means I was wrong — something different happens. I ask better questions. I actually hear the responses. The pushback becomes useful instead of threatening. And the outcome is usually better than what either side walked in with.

Same people. Same room. Same topic. Different intent.


This is just as true when I sit down with AI. If my intent is to get the machine to confirm what I already believe, I’ll frame my questions to lead it there — and it’ll oblige, because that’s what it does. I’ll walk away feeling validated and potentially dead wrong.

If my intent is to find the truth, I ask differently. I challenge what comes back. I say “push back on this” and mean it. I hand over my assumptions and ask the AI to break them. The conversation is harder. The results are better.


Intent is the cornerstone. Not the last thing you think about — the first. If the intent is wrong, every communication skill you have just becomes a sharper tool for manipulation. If the intent is right, even clumsy communication has a chance of getting somewhere real.