Shiny armor hasn't been tested. A husband's reflection on what the dents mean, and why the armor faces the world, never her.
Tag: Faith
Who She Was Talking About
A man in a grocery store heard a little girl say "look at that fat man," and turned around to see who she meant. What Zig Ziglar's story taught me about how I talk about myself.
Why Every Self-Help Book Frustrated Me — Until I Stopped Looking for a Map
Twenty years of notebooks. The same goals in younger handwriting. I wasn't failing. I was restarting, and I never once marked where I stood.
Autonomy Is a Lie
Most relationship problems aren't about toothpaste or love languages. They're about someone who won't let the person they chose change them. I married at 20, before I'd set, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Servant Leadership Only Works If You Know Why
Servant leadership is a buzzword at work and at church. It means the same thing in both places, but only if you know why you're doing it.


