Hang out with me for long enough and there are a few things you will pick up on: I love my wife and son like crazy, I enjoying cooking very much, I talk to myself in funny voices (I can do more than 30), and…did I mention I am crazy about my wife? There are other things that make me me, but loving my wife is the one that really defines me.
I was listening to the radio today and a song came on that I haven’t heard in a while. The chorus said something like this: ‘beautiful girls all over the world I could be chasing, but my time I’d be wasting cause they got nothing on you.’ I had to sit back and smile. I feel that way about Marixa. She is the one for me. There is no other.
Strangely enough, that B.o.B./Bruno Mars song reminded me of a verse from Proverbs 31:29 that I read not too long ago: “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!” (NLT). Loosely translated: they got nothing on you.
I can think of many reasons why I feel like Marixa has surpassed all the others. She is a beautiful woman. She is a wonderful mother. She is the best friend I have ever known. She is brilliant. She is so very creative. She is compassionate. She has the most amazing laugh. All of these reasons are good ones, but they are not the reason I can say with confidence that she has surpassed all the other women in the world in my eyes. What is my reason? She is my wife.
There is no one in this world that is like her for many reasons, but this is the one that I want to address. I fell in love with Marixa. I asked her to marry me. In front of our God and our family and friends I pledged to love her and cherish her above all others for all of my life. I chose her. I choose her still. She surpasses all the other women in this world because she is my wife. She is the one I made a covenant to love and cherish.
There will never be another. There is no need. I already made my choice. They have nothing on her.
Does this ring true in your marriage? It is my prayer that you can say the same thing about the woman (or man) who wears your ring.