Day 3 of the 7-40 Challenge: Round 2 – Pressing On Through Turmoil

Welcome to day three of round two of the 7-40 Challenge. Today has been exhausting—a true test of endurance. Yet, despite the fatigue, I’m staying focused on my goals, holding myself accountable to the path I’ve set.

My heart is heavy today, burdened by the turmoil unfolding in the national news. I won’t dive into specifics here, but if you’ve seen the headlines, you can likely sense the source of my sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and their tragic loss.

A thought on goals

Working toward these goals isn’t always a joyride—I’ll be honest about that. Some tasks are deeply rewarding, while others feel like a slog. Still, they’re worth the effort. One goal I carried from round one into this round is reading for at least 30 minutes daily. So far, I’ve finished three books: two I’d read before and one that was new to me. I’m now on my fourth, Never Play It Safe by Chase Jarvis. I’m familiar with Jarvis’s work, but I wasn’t sure what to expect from this book when I started listening to it (audiobooks help me fit reading into my busy days).

I’m drawn to motivational content—books that inspire me to grow, act, and push beyond my current limits, whether for this challenge or life in general. In Never Play It Safe, Jarvis outlines seven tenets for living with purpose: taking risks, avoiding the trap of playing it safe, and achieving what you’ve set out to do. So far, though I am only through three of the chapters, it’s been a compelling read, though I’ve found myself wrestling with some of his ideas.

This brings me to tonight’s reflection: we don’t have to agree with everything an author says to find value in their work. It’s possible to glean powerful insights—nuggets of truth that resonate—while setting aside what doesn’t align with our perspective or values. I’m experiencing this with Jarvis’s book right now.

In his first chapter, “Attention,” I’m fully on board. Jarvis emphasizes the importance of giving laser-focused attention to the tasks at hand. Setting aside distractions to pursue your goals with intensity is critical, and I’m applying this principle daily.

The second chapter, “Time,” was thought-provoking but trickier for me to grasp. Jarvis suggests that time isn’t just a fleeting resource; it can be manipulated or even expanded. As someone who views time as finite, I initially struggled with this concept. But I believe he’s driving at how focused attention (from the first chapter) alters our perception of time, making it feel like it stretches or contracts based on our immersion. My takeaway? Deep focus helps us maximize the time we have, turning hours into productive breakthroughs.

It’s the third chapter, “Intuition,” where I’m hitting some cognitive dissonance. Jarvis argues that sometimes, despite advice from others pushing us toward a certain path, we know deep down it’s not right. He suggests intuition can guide us in these moments. I’d counter that unless you have significant experience in a given area, what feels like intuition might just be confusion or bias. In such cases, seeking wise counsel is essential. As Proverbs 15:22 says, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed” (ESV).

As a Christian, my perspective on guidance is rooted in my faith. I believe God is actively involved in my life because I’ve accepted Jesus as my Savior. Through the Holy Spirit, sent as a guide, and through my relationship with God—built on Bible study and prayer—I receive guidance toward the right path when I’m still, seeking, and grounded in Scripture. Proverbs 11:14 reinforces this: “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety” (ESV). For me, intuition isn’t some mystical inner voice; it’s either divine guidance or wisdom gained from experience.

Relying solely on gut feelings without self-awareness or authenticity can be misleading. As Francis Bacon wrote in his Essays (1625), “Read not to contradict and confute; nor to believe and take for granted… but to weigh and consider.” This applies to intuition, too: we must test our instincts against experience, counsel, and truth.

I know not everyone shares my spiritual or philosophical views, and that’s okay. I can only speak from my own experience and testimony: God has made Himself real to me, and I trust He’ll lead me when I seek Him. So, for me, what Jarvis calls intuition is better described as divine guidance or hard-earned experience.

What do you think? When you read a book, do you accept it all at face value, or do you sift through the ideas, keeping what resonates and setting aside the rest? How do you approach intuition or guidance in your life? Share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear your perspective.

Onward to day four!

It Was the Best of Times, It Was the Worst of Times: A Life of Gratitude Through the Storms

It was the best of times. It was the worst of times. It was life. It was beautiful. Even when it wasn’t, it was. Does that even make sense? Let me explain.

As Charles Dickens famously opened A Tale of Two Cities in 1859: “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness…” That captures the push-pull of existence perfectly—the highs and lows crashing together, shaping us in ways we can’t always see at the time.

I wasn’t born with a silver spoon in my mouth. From an early age, I knew what it felt like to not have much. Yes, I have eaten government cheese. With a little bit of salt, it isn’t too bad. I had hand-me-down clothes and probably shopped at thrift stores long before it was cool. What did I learn from it? You do what you have to survive and be grateful. There are always others that have it much worse.

Those early struggles built a foundation of resilience. Like the 19th-century poet Thomas Carlyle reflected during times of economic hardship: “Adversity is the diamond dust with which Heaven polishes its jewels.” It wasn’t easy, but it taught me to cherish what I had and keep moving forward.

I remember being a freshman in college and having my first stupid run-in with credit card debt. It was crushing me. I owed a couple of thousand dollars and I asked my dad to help me pay it off. He told me no. He could have helped, but he was teaching me a valuable lesson. I had to learn how to manage my money and take care of myself.

That “no” was tough love at its finest. Benjamin Franklin, ever the voice of frugality in his 1730s Poor Richard’s Almanack, warned: “Rather go to bed supperless than rise in debt.” I understand that so much better having gone through it.

When my bride and I got married, we were broke broke. One broke doesn’t fully explain it. But we had each other, a place to call home, food on our tables, and we had each other. We weren’t poor at all. We have just gone up from there. We have now been married over 26 years and have had a beautiful marriage and have raised a wonderful son.

Our love proved unbreakable amid the scarcity. William Shakespeare put it timelessly in Sonnet 116 around 1609: “Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds.” We’ve climbed together, turning those lean years into a legacy of joy and family.

When I went through cancer, my body hurt and I didn’t know what the future looked like. But I had my faith in God, my wife and son, my friends and family. I had hope that the prescribed treatment would work and one day I would again be cancer-free. It did. A prayer was answered. I am cancer-free.

In the darkest moments, hope and support carried me. Viktor Frankl, drawing from his Holocaust experiences in Man’s Search for Meaning (1946), reminded us: “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude.” I chose faith and gratitude, and it led to healing.

In each situation above, there was bad times and good times. There was love and heartbreak. There was joy and frustration. And at the center of it all? A life that I am so grateful and excited to live. God has been so good to me. I can’t help but be thankful in the good times and the bad times. In the end, it is the life I have lived and I love it.

Life’s duality isn’t a bug—it’s the feature that makes it profound. What’s your “best of times, worst of times” story? I’d love to hear it in the comments.

Day Two of Round Two: Embracing the 7-40 Challenge with Heart and Purpose

Good evening, friends! Welcome to Day Two of Round Two of my 7-40 Challenge journey. I’ve been turning this challenge over in my mind, examining it from every angle like a kid inspecting a shiny new toy. I’m digging into the benefits, sizing up the potential pitfalls, and finding my footing as I go. As Benjamin Franklin once said, “Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing.” I’m aiming to do a bit of both here, and I’m thrilled you’re joining me on this ride.

Let’s kick things off with the good stuff—the benefits of diving headfirst into the 7-40 Challenge. There’s something downright energizing about having a clear goal laid out in front of you. It’s like a lighthouse guiding you through a stormy sea, giving you focus and a reason to get up each morning with purpose. For me, tackling these seven daily habits over 40 days is like pouring high-octane fuel into my life. It’s helping me get fitter, sharpen my mind, and connect with others who are chasing similar dreams. As Ralph Waldo Emerson put it, “The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.” These habits are my way of living well—not just for me, but for the folks I hope to inspire along the way.

Now, I get that this challenge isn’t everyone’s jam, and that’s perfectly fine. But if you’re reading this, I’m genuinely honored. Even if you’re the only one who sees these words, you’re enough. This journey isn’t just about me grinding through my goals; it’s about building a community of dream-chasers and doers. I’d love to hear what you’re working on—your goals, your hurdles, your victories. Drop me a comment or a message, because as much as I hope to spark something in you, I’m counting on you to light a fire under me too.

That said, let’s keep it real—there’s a potential downside to all this focus. If I get too laser-focused on my own progress, I might miss the bigger picture. I could end up staring in a mirror, patting myself on the back for what I’ve accomplished, and that’s not what this is about. As C.S. Lewis wisely said, “Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.” The 7-40 Challenge isn’t about me crowing about my wins; it’s about doing the right things so I can lift others up, share my story, and encourage folks to chase their own dreams. If I make it all about me, I risk turning this into a prideful solo act, and that’s the last thing I want.

At my core, I’ve always known I’m here to help people. Whether it’s through a kind word, a shared experience, or a nudge to keep going, I want to be someone who uplifts and inspires. When I lose sight of that purpose, I feel like a puzzle piece that doesn’t quite fit. This challenge is my way of staying grounded, of making sure my actions line up with my mission to be good to others. As Maya Angelou beautifully said, “Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.” That’s the heart of the 7-40 Challenge for me—using my journey to shine a light for others.

So, yeah, there are upsides and potential pitfalls to this challenge, but all in all, it’s worth every ounce of effort. These goals are worth chasing, and I’m stoked to be on this path with you—wherever you are, whoever you are. I’m grateful for you, even if we’ve never met. Before I wrap this up, I want to hear from you. What’s something you’re working on? What’s got you fired up right now? Your story might just be the inspiration someone else needs.

Here’s to Day Three of the 7-40 Challenge! Keep pushing, keep shining, and I’ll see you tomorrow.

Round 2 of the 7-40 Challenge: Day 1 – Embracing the Journey of Change

Hey there, friends! Welcome to Round 2 of the 7-40 Challenge. I’m David, your host for this 40-day adventure of growth and transformation. Today is Day 1, and I’m pumped to kick things off with renewed focus and a few tweaks to make this round even more meaningful. Let’s dive in and talk about what’s ahead.

The number 40 carries deep significance. In the Bible, it often marks a season of trials leading to breakthroughs—like Noah’s 40 days of rain, ushering in a new world, or Jesus’ 40 days in the desert. As C.S. Lewis once said, “You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” Inspired by this, my 7-40 Challenge is about seven daily practices over 40 days to spark real change in body, mind, and spirit.

Here’s the lineup:

1. Bible Study and Prayer – The heart of it all. Each morning, I ground myself in scripture and prayer, finding clarity and strength for the day.

2. One Hour of Exercise – A daily commitment to move—whether it’s walking, lifting weights, or a mix of both—to build a healthier me.

3. Tracking Water and Calories – Staying mindful of hydration and nutrition keeps my energy steady and my goals in sight.

4. 30 Minutes of Reading – Whether it’s a physical book or an audiobook, this is my time to learn and grow. As Ralph Waldo Emerson put it, “The mind, once stretched by a new idea, never returns to its original dimensions.”

5. Daily Writing – Reflecting on the day’s progress, challenges, and insights helps me stay focused and process what I’m learning.

6. Gratitude Practice – Taking time to genuinely appreciate the blessings in my life, letting that gratitude inspire action and positivity.

7. One Business Activity – This is the new piece! Each day, I’ll focus on one step toward my entrepreneurial goals—whether it’s brainstorming ideas or building something to support my family. It’s about turning creativity into opportunity.

I’m excited to see where these 40 days lead. Compared to Round 1, I’m stepping it up a bit—pushing harder in workouts, lifting heavier, and keeping my daily walks while adding more strength training. My aim? To become a fitter, wiser, more grateful version of myself, while documenting the journey and laying the groundwork for new ventures.

But this isn’t just about me—it’s about us. What goal are you chasing? What could 40 days of focused effort do for you, personally or professionally? As Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” Share your dreams or challenges in the comments—I’d love for you to join me on this path. Let’s make these 40 days count. Who’s ready to make it happen?

Let’s do this!

Reflection: Gratitude for Another Year

As I stepped outside tonight, the cool evening air greeted me, a perfect backdrop for a reflective walk after an evening with family. The day had been a good one—no, a great one. This weekend, celebrating my birthday, has been a vibrant tapestry of joy, love, and gratitude. As I wander through the quiet streets, I find myself looking back, not just on this day, but on the years that have brought me to this moment in my mid-40s.

There’s something humbling yet exhilarating about watching the number of candles on the cake grow higher each year. I used to wince at the thought of aging, but now? Now, I embrace it. Each year is a testament to the life I’ve been given, a chance to savor the things I hold dear. I get to cherish the privilege of simply being here, living this life.

A Heart Full of Thanks

My heart swells with gratitude, first and foremost, to God. His love is a gift I don’t deserve, yet He pours it out generously, guiding me with exquisite care. The Bible reminds us, “Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever” (Psalm 107:1). That enduring love has been my anchor, my compass, through every season. It’s what makes moments like this—standing under a starlit sky, reflecting on another year—feel sacred. He is so good.

I’m also deeply thankful for my wife and son, the heartbeat of my world. They are my joy, my inspiration. Watching them enjoy their days, hearing their laughter, witnessing their creativity—it’s like catching glimpses of God’s goodness in motion. My son’s boundless imagination, my wife’s unwavering love and focus—they are daily reminders of how richly blessed I am. As C.S. Lewis wrote, “There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal.” My family is extraordinary, and I’m grateful for every moment I get to share in their lives.

The Circle of Love

Beyond my immediate family, I’m surrounded by a constellation of people who make life brighter. My parents, my in-laws, my brother, and friends who are my God given family—they love me, and I love them just as much.

I’m also grateful for the tangible blessings in my life. A home I’m proud of, a job I genuinely enjoy, and a body that’s growing stronger and healthier with each passing day. These are not small things. They’re the scaffolding that supports my dreams, the foundation for the goals I’m passionately pursuing.

Looking Forward with Purpose

Today, as I celebrate my birthday, I don’t want it to be a fleeting moment of cake and candles. I want it to be a pause, a deep breath, a chance to recalibrate. I want to carry this gratitude forward, to let it fuel my pursuit of the things that matter most: my relationship with God, my connection with my loved ones, and the dreams I’m chasing. As Martin Luther King Jr. said, “Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” I’m stepping forward, trusting the path God has laid out for me, excited for what lies ahead.

This birthday isn’t just about marking another year—it’s about celebrating the grace that has carried me this far and the hope that propels me into the future. I’m thankful for every moment, every lesson, every laugh, and every tear. Here’s to another year of doing good, loving deeply, and moving forward under the grace of God.