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Unpacking My Library: A Journey Through Books and Growth

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Hello, friends, and welcome to today’s reflection—a little piece of my Saturday soul, shared with you as part of the 7-40 Challenge. I hope your day has been as rich and fulfilling as mine. Here in our new home, the day was brimming with family time, good food, a cozy movie, and, yes, the ongoing adventure of taming the chaos that is my office.

You see, we moved a few months ago, and my office is still a bit of a glorious mess. Picture this: stacks of books, decorations, cords for long-forgotten electronics, vinyl records, and—did I mention?—more books. Over the years, I’ve amassed a collection that could rival a small library. But here’s the kicker: I’ve never had a solid strategy for organizing it all. For too long, boxes of books have been relegated to the garage or tucked away in the attic, out of sight but never out of mind. Moving to this new house forced me to confront them—either find a place for them in my office or, heartbreakingly, let some go.

Now, if you’ve followed my posts before, you know I have a thing for books. I’m utterly captivated by the knowledge they hold, the worlds they open, the possibilities they whisper. But here’s the honest truth: I’m not always great at sitting down with a paper book and getting lost in its pages. So why do I keep all these books? It’s a question I’ve wrestled with, and the answer lies in what they represent.

Books, to me, are markers of my journey. They’re like breadcrumbs leading back to who I was and signposts pointing to who I want to become. As the great philosopher Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “I cannot remember the books I’ve read any more than the meals I have eaten; even so, they have made me.” Each book in my collection tells a story of a moment when I decided I didn’t want to stay stuck—mentally, spiritually, or emotionally. I wanted to grow, to be more, to do more.

Take, for instance, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey, The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale, or Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. These books aren’t just pages bound together; they’re companions that have nudged me toward action, encouraged me to dream bigger, and reminded me to keep pushing forward. They’ve been my coaches on days when I needed a spark of motivation.

Then there’s the spiritual side of my library. Authors like John Eldredge, Craig Groeschel, and Erwin McManus have been my guides in deepening my faith in God and my walk with Jesus. As Dietrich Bonhoeffer wrote in 1937, “When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.” These words remind me that following Jesus is a call to surrender and grow, to let go of my old self and step into the purpose God has for me. These books challenge me to reflect God’s love, to speak truth with compassion, and to live with intention. They push me to be a better example to the world and to align my steps with Jesus

But beyond the practical and the spiritual, there’s another reason I cherish my library. These books represent potential—who I could be, who I’m striving to become. If I can internalize the wisdom within these pages, I can be a more devoted follower of Jesus, a better husband, a better father, a stronger speaker, and a more impactful presence in every area of my life. These books aren’t just objects; they’re trusted voices, offering nuggets of truth that I can turn over in my hands and heart, testing and applying them to grow beyond where I am today.

I don’t take every word in every book at face value. I wrestle with the ideas, weigh them, and keep what resonates as true and good. And that’s the beauty of it—my library is a living, breathing testament to my pursuit of growth, a collection of possibilities that inspire me to keep going.

So, here I am, surrounded by my books, grateful for the journey they represent and the one they’re guiding me toward. I’m thankful for you, too, for reading this far and joining me in this reflection. I’d love to hear from you—what books are in your library? What lessons are you learning, and how are they shaping who you’re becoming? Drop a comment, keep the conversation going, and let’s inspire each other.

Here’s to day seven of the 7-40 Challenge—may we keep growing, learning, and chasing the best versions of ourselves.

The Power of Play: A Day at the State Fair and a Lesson in Living Freely

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Hey there, friends! Welcome to day five of round two of the 7-40 Challenge. Buckle up, because today was an absolute riot of fun. My family and I hit the state fair, and let me tell you, it was a glorious whirlwind of sights, sounds, and pure joy. From the gleaming cars in the automobile pavilion to the endless sea of hot tubs (who knew there was such a demand?), to the irresistible fair food and the electrifying chaos of the Midway—complete with a wild round of bumper cars—it was a day bursting with laughter and memories. I had a blast, and it tied perfectly into today’s reflection from Chase Jarvis’ book, Never Play It Safe. Specifically, his fifth level: Play.

This chapter hit me right in the heart. Jarvis nails something we often overlook: as we grow up, we forget how to play. We get buried under deadlines, responsibilities, and the pressure to perform, and we lose that carefree spark of creativity that comes so naturally to kids. The world might call play silly or a waste of time, but Jarvis argues it’s woven into our very being. It’s not just fun—it’s essential. As the philosopher Plato said in the 4th century BC, “We are twice armed if we fight with faith and play.” Play isn’t a distraction; it’s a cornerstone of a vibrant, balanced life.

Jarvis shares a story that really stuck with me. He describes a guy (whose name escapes me) who was crushing it at an internship, pouring his heart and soul into proving himself. He nailed every detail, worked himself to exhaustion, and eventually landed a full-time job at the company. Sounds like a success story, right? Not so fast. The relentless grind turned him into a workaholic. His personal life faded away, his sleep was a disaster, his eating habits were worse, and he was on the brink of a nervous breakdown. Diagnosed with anxiety, he quit his job, started medication, and hit a low point. That’s when a friend recommended a book about the power of play.

Desperate for a change, this guy took on a 30-day challenge to bring play back into his life. He went for walks, played sports, grabbed a baseball bat and a bag of balls, and spent time at the park with a friend, just hitting balls and letting loose. Day after day, he made time for play. And after 30 days? The results were staggering. His anxiety had vanished. He was off the medication. He was, in his own words, “just OK.” Jarvis drives home the point: play is as restorative as sleep. It frees our minds, reignites our creativity, and recharges us in ways that endless hustling never can. As the poet Robert Louis Stevenson wrote in 1885, “In play, we find the freedom to be our true selves, unburdened by the weight of the world.” When we play, we give our brains room to breathe, to dream, to create.

So, how does this connect to my day at the state fair? It’s like the fair was a living example of Jarvis’ point. My family and I dove headfirst into the experience—stuffing our faces with gloriously weird fair food (deep-fried cheesecake, anyone?), cackling like kids in the bumper cars, and maybe buying a few things we definitely didn’t need. We walked over five miles (my feet are still complaining), but every step was worth it. It was a day of pure, unscripted joy. We played. We laughed. We soaked in each other’s company. And you know what? My soul feels light. I’m tired, sure, but I’m recharged. My brain’s ready to tackle whatever’s next, all because I gave it a chance to just be.

So, wherever you are, whatever you’re doing, I’m challenging you to carve out a little time for play. Take a deep breath, go for a walk, toss a Frisbee, or blast your favorite song and dance like nobody’s watching. It’s not frivolous—it’s vital. Play might just be the secret to keeping your soul light and your mind free. Here’s to day six, friends—let’s keep the good vibes rolling!

What’s your favorite way to play and recharge? Drop a comment and let me know!

Day 3 of the 7-40 Challenge: Round 2 – Pressing On Through Turmoil

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Welcome to day three of round two of the 7-40 Challenge. Today has been exhausting—a true test of endurance. Yet, despite the fatigue, I’m staying focused on my goals, holding myself accountable to the path I’ve set.

My heart is heavy today, burdened by the turmoil unfolding in the national news. I won’t dive into specifics here, but if you’ve seen the headlines, you can likely sense the source of my sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and their tragic loss.

A thought on goals

Working toward these goals isn’t always a joyride—I’ll be honest about that. Some tasks are deeply rewarding, while others feel like a slog. Still, they’re worth the effort. One goal I carried from round one into this round is reading for at least 30 minutes daily. So far, I’ve finished three books: two I’d read before and one that was new to me. I’m now on my fourth, Never Play It Safe by Chase Jarvis. I’m familiar with Jarvis’s work, but I wasn’t sure what to expect from this book when I started listening to it (audiobooks help me fit reading into my busy days).

I’m drawn to motivational content—books that inspire me to grow, act, and push beyond my current limits, whether for this challenge or life in general. In Never Play It Safe, Jarvis outlines seven tenets for living with purpose: taking risks, avoiding the trap of playing it safe, and achieving what you’ve set out to do. So far, though I am only through three of the chapters, it’s been a compelling read, though I’ve found myself wrestling with some of his ideas.

This brings me to tonight’s reflection: we don’t have to agree with everything an author says to find value in their work. It’s possible to glean powerful insights—nuggets of truth that resonate—while setting aside what doesn’t align with our perspective or values. I’m experiencing this with Jarvis’s book right now.

In his first chapter, “Attention,” I’m fully on board. Jarvis emphasizes the importance of giving laser-focused attention to the tasks at hand. Setting aside distractions to pursue your goals with intensity is critical, and I’m applying this principle daily.

The second chapter, “Time,” was thought-provoking but trickier for me to grasp. Jarvis suggests that time isn’t just a fleeting resource; it can be manipulated or even expanded. As someone who views time as finite, I initially struggled with this concept. But I believe he’s driving at how focused attention (from the first chapter) alters our perception of time, making it feel like it stretches or contracts based on our immersion. My takeaway? Deep focus helps us maximize the time we have, turning hours into productive breakthroughs.

It’s the third chapter, “Intuition,” where I’m hitting some cognitive dissonance. Jarvis argues that sometimes, despite advice from others pushing us toward a certain path, we know deep down it’s not right. He suggests intuition can guide us in these moments. I’d counter that unless you have significant experience in a given area, what feels like intuition might just be confusion or bias. In such cases, seeking wise counsel is essential. As Proverbs 15:22 says, “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed” (ESV).

As a Christian, my perspective on guidance is rooted in my faith. I believe God is actively involved in my life because I’ve accepted Jesus as my Savior. Through the Holy Spirit, sent as a guide, and through my relationship with God—built on Bible study and prayer—I receive guidance toward the right path when I’m still, seeking, and grounded in Scripture. Proverbs 11:14 reinforces this: “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety” (ESV). For me, intuition isn’t some mystical inner voice; it’s either divine guidance or wisdom gained from experience.

Relying solely on gut feelings without self-awareness or authenticity can be misleading. As Francis Bacon wrote in his Essays (1625), “Read not to contradict and confute; nor to believe and take for granted… but to weigh and consider.” This applies to intuition, too: we must test our instincts against experience, counsel, and truth.

I know not everyone shares my spiritual or philosophical views, and that’s okay. I can only speak from my own experience and testimony: God has made Himself real to me, and I trust He’ll lead me when I seek Him. So, for me, what Jarvis calls intuition is better described as divine guidance or hard-earned experience.

What do you think? When you read a book, do you accept it all at face value, or do you sift through the ideas, keeping what resonates and setting aside the rest? How do you approach intuition or guidance in your life? Share your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear your perspective.

Onward to day four!

It Was the Best of Times, It Was the Worst of Times: A Life of Gratitude Through the Storms

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It was the best of times. It was the worst of times. It was life. It was beautiful. Even when it wasn’t, it was. Does that even make sense? Let me explain.

As Charles Dickens famously opened A Tale of Two Cities in 1859: “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness…” That captures the push-pull of existence perfectly—the highs and lows crashing together, shaping us in ways we can’t always see at the time.

I wasn’t born with a silver spoon in my mouth. From an early age, I knew what it felt like to not have much. Yes, I have eaten government cheese. With a little bit of salt, it isn’t too bad. I had hand-me-down clothes and probably shopped at thrift stores long before it was cool. What did I learn from it? You do what you have to survive and be grateful. There are always others that have it much worse.

Those early struggles built a foundation of resilience. Like the 19th-century poet Thomas Carlyle reflected during times of economic hardship: “Adversity is the diamond dust with which Heaven polishes its jewels.” It wasn’t easy, but it taught me to cherish what I had and keep moving forward.

I remember being a freshman in college and having my first stupid run-in with credit card debt. It was crushing me. I owed a couple of thousand dollars and I asked my dad to help me pay it off. He told me no. He could have helped, but he was teaching me a valuable lesson. I had to learn how to manage my money and take care of myself.

That “no” was tough love at its finest. Benjamin Franklin, ever the voice of frugality in his 1730s Poor Richard’s Almanack, warned: “Rather go to bed supperless than rise in debt.” I understand that so much better having gone through it.

When my bride and I got married, we were broke broke. One broke doesn’t fully explain it. But we had each other, a place to call home, food on our tables, and we had each other. We weren’t poor at all. We have just gone up from there. We have now been married over 26 years and have had a beautiful marriage and have raised a wonderful son.

Our love proved unbreakable amid the scarcity. William Shakespeare put it timelessly in Sonnet 116 around 1609: “Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds.” We’ve climbed together, turning those lean years into a legacy of joy and family.

When I went through cancer, my body hurt and I didn’t know what the future looked like. But I had my faith in God, my wife and son, my friends and family. I had hope that the prescribed treatment would work and one day I would again be cancer-free. It did. A prayer was answered. I am cancer-free.

In the darkest moments, hope and support carried me. Viktor Frankl, drawing from his Holocaust experiences in Man’s Search for Meaning (1946), reminded us: “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude.” I chose faith and gratitude, and it led to healing.

In each situation above, there was bad times and good times. There was love and heartbreak. There was joy and frustration. And at the center of it all? A life that I am so grateful and excited to live. God has been so good to me. I can’t help but be thankful in the good times and the bad times. In the end, it is the life I have lived and I love it.

Life’s duality isn’t a bug—it’s the feature that makes it profound. What’s your “best of times, worst of times” story? I’d love to hear it in the comments.

Round 2 of the 7-40 Challenge: Day 1 – Embracing the Journey of Change

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Hey there, friends! Welcome to Round 2 of the 7-40 Challenge. I’m David, your host for this 40-day adventure of growth and transformation. Today is Day 1, and I’m pumped to kick things off with renewed focus and a few tweaks to make this round even more meaningful. Let’s dive in and talk about what’s ahead.

The number 40 carries deep significance. In the Bible, it often marks a season of trials leading to breakthroughs—like Noah’s 40 days of rain, ushering in a new world, or Jesus’ 40 days in the desert. As C.S. Lewis once said, “You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” Inspired by this, my 7-40 Challenge is about seven daily practices over 40 days to spark real change in body, mind, and spirit.

Here’s the lineup:

1. Bible Study and Prayer – The heart of it all. Each morning, I ground myself in scripture and prayer, finding clarity and strength for the day.

2. One Hour of Exercise – A daily commitment to move—whether it’s walking, lifting weights, or a mix of both—to build a healthier me.

3. Tracking Water and Calories – Staying mindful of hydration and nutrition keeps my energy steady and my goals in sight.

4. 30 Minutes of Reading – Whether it’s a physical book or an audiobook, this is my time to learn and grow. As Ralph Waldo Emerson put it, “The mind, once stretched by a new idea, never returns to its original dimensions.”

5. Daily Writing – Reflecting on the day’s progress, challenges, and insights helps me stay focused and process what I’m learning.

6. Gratitude Practice – Taking time to genuinely appreciate the blessings in my life, letting that gratitude inspire action and positivity.

7. One Business Activity – This is the new piece! Each day, I’ll focus on one step toward my entrepreneurial goals—whether it’s brainstorming ideas or building something to support my family. It’s about turning creativity into opportunity.

I’m excited to see where these 40 days lead. Compared to Round 1, I’m stepping it up a bit—pushing harder in workouts, lifting heavier, and keeping my daily walks while adding more strength training. My aim? To become a fitter, wiser, more grateful version of myself, while documenting the journey and laying the groundwork for new ventures.

But this isn’t just about me—it’s about us. What goal are you chasing? What could 40 days of focused effort do for you, personally or professionally? As Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” Share your dreams or challenges in the comments—I’d love for you to join me on this path. Let’s make these 40 days count. Who’s ready to make it happen?

Let’s do this!