Day 20 of the 7-40 Challenge: Rediscovering Focus and Embracing Authenticity

Hey there, friends! Welcome to Day 20 of my 7-40 Challenge—a 40-day journey where I’m committing to seven daily habits to sharpen my skills, clarify my priorities, and make real progress on what matters most. We’re at the halfway mark, and I’m going to be real with you: I’m feeling a bit discouraged. But this isn’t a story of defeat—it’s a raw, honest reflection on staying true to my goals and reigniting the fire to keep going. Let’s dive in.

The Struggle Is Real

Life is busy. There’s no sugarcoating it. Between work, family, and the endless stream of notifications, it’s so easy to get sidetracked. I set out on this challenge to focus on what’s important, but 20 days in, I’m realizing how tempting it is to let distractions take the wheel. Some days, I get to the end of the day and see a to-do list that’s still glaring at me, unfinished. It stings. I’ve made progress, don’t get me wrong—but I know I can do better. I want to do better.

The truth is, anything worth doing is worth doing well. I’ve heard that saying my whole life, and it’s hitting home hard right now. So, as I stand at this halfway point, I’m taking a moment to reflect on my seven habits, recommit to my purpose, and sharpen my focus for the next 20 days. Let’s walk through each goal together—not just to hold myself accountable, but to remind myself (and maybe you) why these things matter.

My Seven Habits: Why They’re Worth It

Here’s a breakdown of the seven daily habits I’m working on, why they matter to me, and where I need to step up my game.

1. Bible Study and Prayer
Every morning, I start my day in God’s Word. This habit is my anchor—it sharpens my mind, aligns my heart, and sets me up to be a light to others. I want to live out His will and make a positive impact. This one’s been non-negotiable, and I’m proud to say I’ve stuck with it. It’s not just a task; it’s a lifeline that keeps me grounded.

2. 60 Minutes of Exercise
Here’s where I need to get real. My goal is 60 minutes of intentional exercise daily, but my Apple Watch sometimes gives me credit for “exercise minutes” when I’m just walking or moving around. That’s not what I signed up for. I want focused, purposeful workouts to get stronger and healthier. For the second half of this challenge, I’m recommitting to making exercise a priority, not an afterthought.

3. Drinking 100 Ounces of Water
Okay, why is this so hard? I love my coffee and tea, but hitting 100 ounces of water every day feels like climbing a mountain. I’m struggling to stay consistent, so I’m setting a new mini-goal: 64 ounces by lunch. It’s time to stop making excuses and hydrate like I mean it.

4. Logging My Calories
This one’s been a win. I’ve tracked my calories every day, and it’s giving me a clearer picture of my eating habits. Some days, I’m on point; others, when I’m tired or craving comfort food, my calories creep up. My bigger goal is to get fit and feel good in my body, so I’m going to keep fine-tuning this habit to stay on track.

5. Practicing Gratitude
Gratitude isn’t just saying “thank you”—it’s a call to action. It’s about being so thankful for the blessings in my life—my family, my work, my home, my friends—that I’m moved to do good and love others well. I wrote about this on my blog recently, and it’s a reminder that gratitude should fuel excellence in everything I do. I want to lean into this even more, showing my thankfulness through my actions.

6. Reading or Listening to Audiobooks for 30 Minutes
This habit has been a joy. Whether I’m walking or chilling, I’ve been diving into audiobooks for at least 30 minutes a day. I finished Creative Calling by Chase Jarvis and started Building a StoryBrand by Donald Miller (the 2.0 version). These books are sharpening my mind and sparking new ideas. I’m excited to keep this going and see where it takes me.

7. Writing or Creating for My Personal Business
Every day, I’m writing on my blog, recapping my 7-40 Challenge journey. This isn’t just about checking a box—it’s about sharing my story to encourage and motivate others. But I want to get clearer on my message. These habits aren’t random; they’re about becoming a better version of myself so I can inspire others to do the same.

Refocusing for the Finish Line

As I look at these goals, I’m reminded that they’re not just tasks—they’re investments in who I want to be. Distraction only creeps in when I lose sight of that. By walking through each habit, I’m reigniting my motivation and sharpening my focus for the next 20 days. I’m not here to cram these habits into the margins of my day; I’m here to make them the heartbeat of my routine.

So, what’s the takeaway? Authenticity and focus go hand in hand. Being honest about my struggles—whether it’s getting distracted or struggling with water intake—helps me realign with my purpose. This challenge isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s about showing up, even when it’s hard, and choosing to do the work that matters.

Your Turn: What’s Your Focus?

I’m heading into the second half of this challenge with renewed energy, ready to tackle these habits with intention and excellence. But I want to hear from you. What are you working on? Is your focus razor-sharp, or are you wrestling with distractions like me? Drop a comment below and share your journey—I’d love to hear how you’re staying motivated and what’s keeping you going.

Here’s to Day 21 and beyond. Let’s do some good work!

Day 17 of the 7-40 Challenge: Let Gratitude Light Your Fire

Hey there! Welcome to day seventeen of my 7-40 challenge, where I’m pouring my heart into sharpening my skills, building unstoppable momentum, and keeping my eyes fixed on what truly matters. Today, I’m sitting here with a heart so full it might just burst—not from anything grand or flashy, but from the quiet, powerful glow of gratitude. And I want to share that warmth with you, because gratitude? It’s not just a feeling. It’s a spark that can set your whole world ablaze in the best way possible.

Let me paint you a picture. Tonight, I’m reflecting on all the blessings in my life—my faith, my family, the opportunities I’ve been given, and the endless love that surrounds me. It’s like a cozy fire in my chest, warming me from the inside out. And it’s got me thinking about something Albert Schweitzer once said: “At times, our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person; each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.”

Those words hit me hard because they remind me that gratitude isn’t meant to sit still. It’s not a quiet moment of reflection that fades when the day ends. No, gratitude is a call to action—a nudge to take that spark and pass it on, to light someone else’s flame and keep the cycle going.

Let’s get real for a second. Gratitude isn’t just saying “thank you” and moving on. It’s about doing something with it. It’s about taking that warmth in your heart and turning it into movement, into impact. For me, that’s been so clear in this season of change. I recently made a big move—new city, new job, new chapter. My old job? It was good. It had its highs and lows, familiar faces, and steady routines. I was grateful for it, truly. But deep down, I knew I needed a change. I wanted to be closer to family, to step into something that felt like a better fit for who I am and who I’m becoming. And then this new company came along and gave me a chance. A real chance to shine. I’m so thankful for that—not just for the job, but for the opportunity to show up, work hard, and prove that their trust in me wasn’t misplaced.

That gratitude? It didn’t just make me smile on day one and call it a day. It lit a fire under me. It’s pushing me to bring my A-game, to add value, to lift others up as I go. I want to earn every opportunity I’m given and create more for those around me. That’s what gratitude does—it moves you. It’s not about chasing rewards or recognition. It’s about saying “thank you” by doing good with what you’ve been given. It’s about keeping that cycle of thankfulness alive, sparking it in others so they can feel it too.

So, here’s my challenge to you today: pause for a moment and think about what’s filling your heart with gratitude. Maybe it’s the people who’ve believed in you, the small wins that keep you going, or the simple beauty of a sunrise that reminds you life is good. Whatever it is, hold it close. Let it warm you. And then—here’s the important part—do something with it. How can you turn that gratitude into action? Maybe it’s a kind word to someone who needs it, a helping hand, or a bold step toward a dream you’ve been holding back on. Whatever it is, let gratitude be your fuel.

I’d love to hear from you. What’s got your heart glowing with thankfulness today? And how are you turning that gratitude into something real, something that moves the needle for you or someone else? Drop it in the comments below—let’s inspire each other and keep this spark alive.

Here’s to day seventeen, to gratitude that moves us. I’ll see you tomorrow for day eighteen, ready to keep this journey going strong. Keep shining, friends—you’ve got this!

Day 16 of the 7-40 Challenge: Keep Going, Even When You’re Tired

Hey there, dream-chaser! Welcome to Day 16 of my 7-40 Challenge—a 40-day journey where I’m committing to seven daily habits to bring my goals to life. Today, I’ve got a confession: I’m exhausted. Bone-tired, ready-to-crawl-back-to-bed kind of tired. But here’s the thing—I’m not giving up. And neither should you. Let’s talk about pushing through, staying focused, and chasing our dreams, even when the going gets tough.

The Comfort Trap: A Familiar Foe

We’ve all been there. When life gets hard, when fatigue sets in, it’s so tempting to slip back into our comfort zones. For me, that used to mean diving under the covers, scrolling endlessly through social media, or reaching for a snack to numb the discomfort. I’ve spent parts of my life as a comfort seeker, dodging the hard stuff in favor of what feels easy. But here’s what I’ve learned: comfort is the enemy of progress. I want progress.

As the great philosopher Plato once said, “We are twice armed if we fight with faith.” Faith in ourselves, in our goals, and in the process—it’s what keeps us moving forward when every fiber of our being screams for rest. The old me would’ve given in to that scream. The new me? I’m choosing to show up, tired or not.

Doing It Tired, Doing It Hurting, Doing It Anyway

Part of building a daily habit set—like my 7-40 Challenge—is being unwavering. It’s about showing up for yourself, even when you’re not at your best. Today, I’m tired. My body’s aching, and my bed is calling my name. But I’m not listening. Why? Because I know that the tiredness will pass, but the regret of giving up won’t.

I’m committing to finishing my seven habits today—my workout, my water intake, my goals—before I let myself rest. And here’s the good news: I will get to rest. I’ll sleep soundly tonight, wake up tomorrow, and go after it again. The fatigue is temporary, but the progress? That’s is non negotiable.

A Lesson from the Past: The Power of Relentless Pursuit

Let me take you back to a moment that still inspires me. Thirty years ago, I was a high school junior with a dream: to make the All-State Choir. I’d tasted defeat the year before as a sophomore, and it stung. But that summer, I decided failure wasn’t an option. The choir clinic I needed to attend cost money—money I didn’t have. So, I got to work. I mowed lawns, hustled, and saved every penny until I could afford it. I practiced relentlessly, poured my heart into every note, and when tryouts came, I made it. I stood on that stage, a member of the All-State Choir, because I refused to let anything stand in my way. I have applied that o other pursuits over the years with similar outcome, but there have been times of the opposite. I have to focus on the good days and let them be my choice.

As Nelson Mandela once said, “It always seems impossible until it’s done.” That’s the mindset I’m bringing to my 7-40 Challenge. In just 16 days, I’ve lost over 10 pounds by staying consistent—drinking my water, hitting my hour-long workouts, and keeping my eyes on the prize. I’m tired, sure, but I’m also stronger, healthier, and closer to my goals. The principle is the same now as it was back then: when you know what you want, you don’t let obstacles—whether it’s fatigue, doubt, or setbacks—stop you.

Your Turn: What’s Your Goal?

So, let me ask you: What’s your goal? What dream are you chasing? Are you showing up for it every day, even when it’s hard? Are you holding yourself accountable, or are you letting excuses creep in? I want to hear from you. If you’re crushing it, share your story—I could use the inspiration! If you’re struggling, let’s talk about it. Frustrations are part of the journey, but they don’t have to define it.

You, reading this right now, are part of my accountability. Knowing you’re out there, cheering me on, holds me accountable. I’m grateful for you—more than you know.

Keep Going, Keep Growing

Day 16 of the 7/40 Challenge is almost in the books, and I’m not done yet. I’ll finish my habits, push through the tiredness, and wake up tomorrow ready to tackle Day 17. The road to our dreams isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. As Winston Churchill once said, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”

So, let’s keep going—tired, hurting, or otherwise. Let’s chase our goals with everything we’ve got. Here’s to Day 16, to progress, and to the unstoppable spirit inside us all. I’ll see you tomorrow for Day 17. Keep shining!

What’s your goal? Drop it in the comments, share your wins, or let me know what’s holding you back. Let’s inspire each other!

Day 15 of the 7-40 Challenge: Finding Magic in the Mundane

Welcome to Day 15 of my 740 Challenge—a 40-day journey where I commit to seven daily tasks to build consistency, discipline, and progress toward my goals. Today, I’m diving into a topic that might not sound glamorous but is the backbone of every great achievement: executing through the mundane. Stick with me, because this is where the magic happens.

We all dream of that “overnight success” moment—the spotlight, the recognition, the feeling of finally making it. We imagine waking up one day to find our goals achieved, our names celebrated, and our unique talents shining for the world to see. But here’s the truth: overnight success is a myth. As the Founding Father Thomas Jefferson once said, “I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have.”  Those who seem to burst onto the scene have often spent years grinding in the shadows, honing their craft, and embracing the mundane tasks that build the foundation for greatness.

The Hidden Work Behind the Spotlight

Think about it: every icon we admire—whether it’s an athlete, an artist, or an entrepreneur—has a story of relentless effort. Take Michael Jordan, for example. He’s celebrated as arguably, the greatest basketball players of all time, but what most people don’t talk about are the countless hours he spent shooting free throws, running drills, and studying game footage. As Jordan himself said, “I’ve failed over and over, and that’s why I succeed.” His success wasn’t a sudden leap; it was the result of showing up, day after day, to do the work most people overlook.

The same applies to us. We might not be aiming for NBA stardom, but we all have goals—whether it’s writing a book, building a business, or simply becoming a better version of ourselves. The path to those goals is paved with repetitive, sometimes boring tasks. And that’s okay. The mundane is where discipline is forged, where skills are sharpened, and where dreams take root.

Embracing the Grind

I’ll be honest: I used to think creativity and success were all about spontaneous bursts of brilliance. As a self-proclaimed “free spirit” (I still have one inside me, even though he doesn’t get to come out very often!), I resisted routine. I thought sticking to the same tasks day in and day out would stifle my creativity. But over time, I’ve learned that true mastery comes from repetition. As the philosopher Aristotle wisely noted, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

In my 7-40 Challenge, I’m focusing on seven core habits: reading voraciously (or listening to audiobooks), writing daily to capture my thoughts, prioritizing my fitness with single-minded focus, deepening my relationship with God through Bible study and prayer, and practicing genuine gratitude every day. These tasks might sound simple, even mundane, but they’re the building blocks of the life I want to create. They’re the small, consistent steps that will lead me to bigger, more creative goals down the road.

Why the Mundane Matters

The world loves to celebrate the viral moment—the one-hit wonder or the overnight sensation. But here’s the catch: those who achieve fleeting success without a foundation of discipline often can’t sustain it. Virality might come from luck, but lasting impact comes from craft. When you’ve spent years perfecting your skills, those “bursts of creativity” the world sees aren’t random—they’re the result of countless hours of preparation.

In my own journey, I’m not chasing likes or followers. My goal isn’t for the world to notice this challenge (though if you’re reading this, hi!). My aim is to weave these habits into the fabric of my life, to become proficient in the small things so I can tackle the big ones. As author James Clear puts it in Atomic Habits, “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” The mundane tasks we commit to are the systems that carry us forward.

Your Turn: Find Power in the Mundane

So, what about you? What mundane tasks do you do every day that are quietly building your path to success? Maybe it’s the early morning workout you never skip, the journal you write in each night, or the emails you send to nurture your professional relationships. These small acts might not feel exciting, but they’re the threads that weave the tapestry of your achievements.

I’d love to hear from you! Share in the comments one mundane task you do consistently that’s helping you move toward your goals. Let’s inspire each other to keep showing up, even when the work feels ordinary. As the Chinese philosopher Lao Tzu once said, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” Let’s keep taking those steps, together.

Here’s to Day 15 of the 740 Challenge—and to the power of the mundane! Keep grinding, keep growing, and I’ll see you tomorrow for Day 16.

What’s your mundane task that’s paving the way to your success? Drop it in the comments below and let’s celebrate the small steps that lead to big wins!

Day 14 of the 7-40 Challenge: Becoming Who I’m Meant to Be

Good evening, my friends! As the sun sets on week two of the 7-40 Challenge—that’s 14 days straight of committing to seven daily habits over 40 days—I’m filled with a profound sense of gratitude and excitement. This isn’t just a checklist of tasks; it’s a bold pursuit of personal growth, a relentless chase after my goals, and a test of how far I can push myself when I truly set my mind to it. If you’ve been following along, you know this challenge is about more than achievement—it’s about transformation. And today, I want to inspire you to join me in that transformation, because every small step today shapes the extraordinary person you’ll become tomorrow.

Picture this: It was a fantastic weekend, capped off by a powerful sermon at Life.Church that hit me right in the soul. The pastor’s words echoed like a clarion call: “It’s not as much about what you do in the future as who you are becoming today.” Wow. In that moment, everything clicked. For years, I’ve known the “right” things to do—heck, most of us do. But knowledge alone doesn’t build empires or change lives. It’s discipline, that quiet, daily grind, that forges us into something different than we could have ever imagined.

Let me be real with you: I’ve never struggled with understanding what needs to be done. My Achilles’ heel? Actually doing it. Sound familiar? You know the drill—losing weight seems straightforward on paper. Track your calories, burn more than you consume, lace up those sneakers for an hour of exercise, and steer clear of those late-night temptations. The math is simple, but execution? That’s where the battle rages. For me, food has been a crutch during stress, a comforting escape that’s led to too many high-calorie slip-ups at the worst times. It’s a classic story, one shared by so many of us.

But here’s the game-changer: Committing to this daily practice—counting calories, hitting that workout, and sharing my progress here for accountability—has shifted everything. It’s not about the distant finish line; it’s about the person I’m sculpting right now, in these small, consistent moments. As Aristotle wisely said centuries ago, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” Those words from ancient Greece resonate deeply, reminding us that true greatness isn’t born from grand gestures but from the habits we nurture day in and day out.

Now, don’t get me wrong—the pastor wasn’t dismissing big dreams. Far from it! Life is fleeting; tomorrow isn’t promised, as I’ve learned through my own brushes with mortality. Yet, in acknowledging our fragility, we’re also awakened to our immense potential. We’re crafted in the image of the ultimate Creator—God Himself. Genesis 1:27 declares, “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” And Psalm 139:13-14 beautifully affirms, “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”

If we’re made in the likeness of the One who spoke the universe into existence, then we’re wired to dream, to innovate, to build beauty from chaos. We’re born creators! But with that comes a sacred balance: chasing audacious goals while cultivating the character that sustains them. The Bible is rich with guidance on this. The Ten Commandments outline boundaries to protect our integrity and to honor God, while Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5-7 calls us to be the light of the world—merciful, pure in heart, peacemakers, holy. And in his letters, the Apostle Paul urges us in Ephesians 4:32 to “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” And so much more. 

So, who are we becoming? Are we trustworthy people that others can lean on? Dependable friends who show up in the storms? Uplifting voices that inspire rather than tear down? These are the qualities my 7-40 Challenge is honing in me, rooted in daily Bible study and prayer. I want God’s Word to mold me to make me more like Jesus. As Proverbs 4:25-27 instructs, “Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.”

You might be reading this and thinking, “That’s great for you, but faith isn’t my thing.” I get it. Yet, I think we can agree on this: Small, intentional actions, repeated daily, propel us toward the best version of ourselves, whatever that looks like for you. Whether it’s conquering a fitness goal, advancing your career, or nurturing relationships, consistency is the secret sauce. As the great inventor Thomas Edison once said, “Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.” It’s that daily sweat equity that turns dreams into reality. It is doing what needs to be done every day to become who we are supposed to be.

What are you working on right now? Who are you becoming in these everyday moments? How will the habits you’re building today carry you into a brighter future? Drop your thoughts in the comments below—I’d love to hear your stories, your struggles, and your victories. Let’s motivate each other, inspire one another, and remember: The masterpiece you’re creating isn’t just what you achieve—it’s who you become along the way.

Keep pushing, keep growing. You’ve got this!