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The 7-40 Challenge: Embracing Progress Over Perfection

~ David Willis ~ Leave a comment

“Success is not the absence of obstacles, but the courage to push through them.” – Joshua J. Marine

Four weeks ago, I embarked on a personal journey called the 7-40 Challenge—seven daily habits over 40 days to transform my routine and mindset. Today, on day 28, I’m reflecting on the progress I’ve made, the lessons I’ve learned, and the beauty of embracing imperfection in pursuit of growth. This isn’t just about checking boxes; it’s about finding balance, staying productive, and learning to roll with life’s ebb and flow.

The Seven Habits of the 7-40 Challenge

For those just tuning in, here’s a quick rundown of the seven daily habits I committed to:

1. Bible study and prayer to grow closer to God and center my day.

2. Counting daily calories to stay mindful of my nutrition.

3. Drinking 100 ounces of water to keep hydrated.

4. Working out for an hour to stay active.

5. Practicing gratitude to cultivate a positive mindset.

6. Reading for 30 minutes (audiobook or paperback) to feed my mind.

7. Writing or working on business goals to move my projects forward.

These habits are my roadmap to becoming a better version of myself. But as I’ve learned over these four weeks, progress isn’t always linear, and perfection isn’t the goal—productivity is.

A Day in the Life: When Life Becomes the Workout

Today was one of those days that reminded me flexibility is key. I accomplished nearly all my habits, but the “workout” box didn’t get checked in the traditional sense. No gym session, no structured exercise routine. Instead, life itself became my workout.

After breakfast and church, I tackled mowing my sprawling yard. Riding the lawnmower? Easy. But the weed-eating? That’s where the real work kicked in. An hour and 45 minutes under the blazing sun left me sweaty, grimy, and physically spent. Then, I dove into a woodworking project, hauling a 6-foot butcher block countertops, measuring, cutting, and carrying materials back and forth. Add in a Costco run, helping with dinner, and knocking out a hefty to-do list, and my body was screaming, “You’ve done enough!”

Did I have a “workout”? Not in the conventional sense. Did I work out? Absolutely. My body was tired, my tasks were completed, and I felt accomplished. As Theodore Roosevelt once said, “Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” Today, I lived that truth.

The Lesson: Balance Over Burnout

The 7-40 Challenge isn’t about being perfect every day—it’s about staying committed while giving yourself grace. Some days, life’s demands take precedence, and that’s okay. The key is finding a sustainable balance that allows you to pursue your goals without burning out. As Aristotle wisely noted, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”

I’m learning that there’s an ebb and flow to challenges like this. Some days, you nail every habit. Others, you adapt, prioritizing what needs to be done while still moving forward. For me, that meant recognizing that mowing, carpentry, and running errands were just as valid as a gym session. It’s about progress, not perfection.

Why This Matters

If you’re reading this, you might already be a pro at balancing life’s demands with personal growth. Or maybe, like me, you’re still figuring it out. Either way, I’m sharing this journey because I believe in the power of small, consistent steps. The 7-40 Challenge is teaching me to celebrate the wins—big and small—and to keep going even when things don’t go as planned.

What’s Next?

With 12 days left in the challenge, I’m more motivated than ever to keep pushing forward. I’m learning to adapt, to listen to my body, and to prioritize what matters most. Tomorrow is day 29, and I’m excited to see what it brings.

Does this resonate with you? Have you ever had to pivot your goals to fit life’s demands? Drop a comment below—I’d love to hear your thoughts, tips, or experiences. Let’s keep the conversation going and inspire each other to keep moving forward, one productive day at a time.

Here’s to progress, balance, and the courage to keep going. See you tomorrow for day 29!

Day 26 of the 7-40 Challenge: Why I Still Love Paper Books

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Hey there, welcome to Day 26 of my 7-40 Challenge— that’s right, 7 daily habits cranked up over 40 days to level up my life, smash through procrastination, and finally get some real momentum going. If you’ve been riding shotgun with me, you know the drill: bible study and prayer, calorie tracking, hydration, exercise, gratitude, writing and today’s topic…reading books. Today, taking a deep dive on why I still love paper books…even though I struggle to sit still long enough to read them.

Confession time: I’ve always been a book hoarder—my shelves are bursting, and my wife? Let’s just say she’s politely suggested a “book intervention” more than once. But why the obsession? After some soul-searching during this challenge, I’ve boiled it down to three reasons. Let’s roll!

1. Books Are Epic Bodies of Knowledge—Your Personal Portal to Mastery

First off, paper books are like treasure chests packed with pure, distilled wisdom. Who needs a fancy classroom or a guru breathing down your neck when you can grab a book and dive straight into the good stuff? Flip those pages, absorb the insights, and boom—you’re building expertise on your terms. As the ancient Roman philosopher Cicero once said, “A room without books is like a body without a soul.” Spot on, right? Books aren’t just ink on paper; they’re gateways to worlds of knowledge that stick with you.

In my collection, I’ve got timeless beasts that I revisit like old friends. Take See You at the Top by Zig Ziglar—it’s a motivational powerhouse loaded with strategies for crushing goals and staying fired up. Or Eat That Frog by Brian Tracy, which drops bombs on prioritization and turning “to-dos” into “done deals.” Right now, I’m knee-deep in Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin, where these Navy SEAL legends break down leadership lessons forged in the fires of Iraq. These aren’t one-and-done reads; they’re arsenals I pull from whenever life throws a curveball. They help me grow stronger, adapt faster, and tackle whatever chaos comes my way. In a world of quick-fix TikToks, books like these remind me: real knowledge builds empires.

2. Engage at Your Own Pace—Because Life’s Insights Evolve With You

Second reason? Paper books let you call the shots. No fast-forwarding through an audiobook or getting lost in a podcast shuffle. You can pause, ponder, underline that killer quote, or straight-up set it down and marinate on an idea. René Descartes nailed it when he wrote, “The reading of all good books is like a conversation with the finest minds of past centuries.” It’s intimate, flexible, and deeply personal— like chatting with geniuses who wait patiently for you to catch up.

I’ve got books I’ve revisited multiple times, each read unlocking new layers. Case in point: Extreme Ownership. I first cracked it open four years ago, and it was solid—gave me some foundational wins. But now? Holy smokes, it’s hitting different. Every principle screams relevance to my current job: owning mistakes, leading teams through tough spots, decentralizing command. My context has shifted, and so has the book’s impact. It’s not just rereading; it’s re-leveling up. If I had to snag this wisdom from a live convo, it’d be gone in a flash. But with a book? It’s yours forever, ready for round two (or three) whenever you’re primed for it.

3. They Force You to Wrestle—Building a Bulletproof Mindset

Finally—and this one’s my favorite gut-check—books make you struggle. Not in a bad way, but in that “iron sharpens iron” grind that builds real strength. Just because it’s printed doesn’t make it gospel. You’ve got to read critically: question the author’s angle, test their hypotheses, and sift for gold even if the whole premise doesn’t vibe. Mark Twain put it bluntly: “The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them.” But I’d add: the real edge comes from dissecting them, not swallowing them whole.

Over the years, I’ve ditched books that felt like sales pitches—pushing some “one true method” without earning my trust. Others? Biased vibes leaked through, ignoring the full picture. But even in those, I’ve snagged nuggets that sparked breakthroughs. It’s about building discernment: trusting proven voices while scrutinizing new ones. What vantage point are they writing from? What’s their intent? This habit doesn’t just fill your head; it hones your baloney detector. As your life evolves, you weave these insights together, creating a rock-solid foundation of what you know to be true. Books challenge you to own your knowledge—and that’s where the real power kicks in.

Whew, that felt good to unpack! So, spill the beans: What’s your all-time favorite book, and why does it rock your world? Do you geek out over owning physical copies, or are you team digital? If reading’s not your jam, what’s holding you back? Drop your thoughts in the comments—let’s turn this into a conversation.

Day 26? Done. Feeling pumped for Day 27. Thanks for tagging along on the ride. 

The Ripple Effect: How Our Choices Shape Lives – Day 25 of My 7-40 Challenge

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Hello, friends! Welcome to Day 25 of my 7-40 Challenge, where I’m diving deep into practicing seven transformative habits daily to spark meaningful change in my life. I’m David, your host for this journey, and today, I want to share something that’s been on my heart: the incredible ripple effect of our choices and how they touch the lives of others in ways we might never imagine.

Have you ever stopped to think about how every decision you make—big or small—sends ripples out into the world? It’s like tossing a pebble into a pond; the waves spread far beyond the point of impact. I’ve been reflecting on this a lot lately, and it’s humbling to realize that we don’t live in a vacuum. Our choices don’t just affect us; they shape the lives of those around us, sometimes in profound ways.

Take a simple example: if I hit the snooze button and sleep in, I might miss my alarm, get to work late, and skip an important meeting. My productivity takes a hit, and that could impact my team, my projects, or even my workplace’s vibe. Or consider this—if I neglect my health and let my body fall into disrepair, someone else might have to step in to care for me, carrying a burden I could have prevented. On the flip side, when I choose to wake up early, work diligently toward my goals, or express gratitude to someone who needs to hear it, I can brighten their day and inspire them to do the same. Our choices matter—not just for us, but for our communities.

This idea reminds me of a concept I explored years ago in a Toastmasters speech: the butterfly effect. You’ve probably heard of it—the theory that a butterfly flapping its wings on one side of the world can set off a chain of events that, over time, could lead to something as massive as a hurricane on the other side. Now, I’m no scientist, and I won’t pretend to know the physics behind it, but I do know this: the small things we do create ripples that can change the course of someone’s life.

Let me share a story that brings this to life. Back when I was in college, I met a guy who was both a student at my university and a college pastor at a local church. He was a cool, genuine person, and one day, he invited me and a few others to join his church’s weekly Bible study. I didn’t think much of it at the time—I just wanted to hang out with this guy and be part of something meaningful. Little did I know, that single invitation would set me on a path that changed my life forever.

Fast forward to April 1, 1998. I showed up to volunteer at the church, not even sure what I’d be doing—just eager to help out. As I walked in with my friend, a beautiful blonde woman came down the hall. He introduced us, and she gave me a polite hello before turning her attention back to him. I had no idea that I’d just met my future wife.

That moment was the start of something incredible. We started hanging out at church, went on a church trip together that summer, and before long, we were dating. By the end of the summer, we were saying “I love you,” and just a few months later, we were engaged. In January 1999, we got married. That one invitation to a Bible study—a small, seemingly insignificant choice by my friend—led me to my best friend, my partner, my wife.

When I think about the ripples of that moment, I can’t help but wonder: what if that college pastor had decided not to invite people to his church? What if he hadn’t been so intentional about building community? Would I have met my wife? Would I be where I am today? I like to think I’d have found her somehow, but I’m so grateful I’ll never have to answer that question. His simple act of reaching out created a ripple that changed my life forever.

This 7-40 Challenge has me thinking about the ripples I’m creating right now. The habits I’m building, the stories I’m sharing, the choices I’m making—they’re not just for me. I hope they inspire someone else to step up, chase their goals, or share their own story. I want my life to send out positive ripples, encouraging others to create their own.

I’m so thankful for that college pastor’s friendship all those years ago and for the community he invited me into. I’m endlessly grateful to God that it led me to my wife. Now, I want to hear from you. Where have you seen the butterfly effect in your own life? How have your choices—or someone else’s—created ripples that changed everything? Drop your stories in the comments below; I’d love to chat about it!

Until tomorrow, friends, keep making choices that send out good ripples. See you on Day 26!

Embracing Extreme Ownership: A Journey of Personal Growth

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Welcome back, friends! Today, I’m diving into my 7-40 Challenge—a personal quest to build seven daily habits over 40 days. We’re well into this journey, and despite my occasional confusion about what day it is (is it day 24 or 25? Day 24.), I’m making solid progress. One of my key habits is dedicating 30 minutes a day to reading or listening to a book, and let me tell you, it’s been a game-changer.

The Struggle with Paper Books

I’ll be honest: sitting down with a physical book is tough for me. It’s not that I don’t love a good story or crave knowledge—I do! I once devoured a James Patterson novel and a John Grisham thriller in a single weekend. But holding a book up to my face? It just doesn’t click. Over the years, I’ve realized I’m an auditory learner. Audiobooks let me process information faster and more effectively. Thanks to Audible, I’ve built an extensive collection of audiobooks, and I keep adding to it. They’re my go-to for soaking up stories and ideas while I’m on the move.

For this challenge, I started with Creative Calling by Chase Jarvis, which was inspiring, and dipped into Building a StoryBrand 2.0 by Donald Miller, but it didn’t feel like the right time for it. Then I picked up Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin, and wow—this book is hitting all the right notes.

Why Extreme Ownership Resonates

Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win is a powerhouse of leadership principles drawn from the authors’ experiences as Navy SEALs in Iraq. Willink and Babin share gripping stories from the battlefield and translate those lessons into practical strategies for business and everyday life. As someone who deeply admires soldiers for their courage, discipline, and fitness, I’m captivated by their ability to take high-stakes lessons from war and apply them to leadership.

The core principle of the book—extreme ownership—has me reflecting hard on my own life. As Willink and Babin write, “On any team, in any organization, all responsibility for success and failure rests with the leader. The leader must own everything in his or her world. There is no one else to blame” (Extreme Ownership, p. 30). This idea challenges leaders to take full responsibility—not just for their own actions but for the outcomes of their entire team. It’s about setting a clear vision, communicating effectively, and guiding your people toward a shared purpose.

A Lesson from the Past

This concept of ownership hits home when I think about a job I had in the mid-2000s. I worked in an office that was, frankly, a tough environment. The owner smoked four to six cigars a day, and stepping into the office was like walking into a smoky bar. By the end of the day, I reeked so badly that my wife wouldn’t kiss me until I showered and ditched my clothes. Beyond the smoke, the workplace was dysfunctional. Expectations were unclear, communication was spotty, and I felt stuck, frustrated, and unnoticed despite my hard work.

While I was there, I blamed my boss, the environment, or the situation for my unhappiness. But reading Extreme Ownership made me realize I was complicit in my misery. I stayed in that job for three and a half years, comfortably miserable, without actively seeking other opportunities. It wasn’t until a friend offered to pass my resume to another company that I saw a way out. That experience taught me a hard truth: my choices, effort, and actions played a huge role in my happiness. I had to take ownership of my situation to change it.

Applying Extreme Ownership Today

It’s been 18 years since I left that smoke-filled office, and I now have a career I love, doing work that feels meaningful and fulfilling. But even now, it’s tempting to point fingers when things don’t go my way—to blame the company, circumstances, or others for my frustrations. Extreme Ownership reminds me that it’s on me to perform, to lead those around me, and to take responsibility for our collective goals. As Willink and Babin put it, “Implementing Extreme Ownership requires checking your ego and operating with a high degree of humility” (Extreme Ownership, p. 76). It’s about owning my decisions, from my work to my fitness to every area of my life.

This mindset shift is transformative. Instead of complaining or feeling stuck, I’m learning to look in the mirror and ask, “What can I do to move forward?” Whether it’s tackling a work challenge, improving my health, or leading my team, extreme ownership has to become a way of life.

Your Turn

I can’t recommend Extreme Ownership enough. It’s a fantastic read (or listen!) for anyone looking to step up as a leader in their work, relationships, or personal growth. But I’m curious—what books are you reading right now? What lessons are sticking with you? Drop a comment below—I’d love to hear your thoughts and keep the conversation going.

Until tomorrow, keep moving forward!

Reference:

Willink, J., & Babin, L. (2015). Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win. St. Martin’s Press.

Breaking Free: Conquering Old Habits and Savoring Success in the 7-40 Challenge

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Hey there, welcome to my corner of the internet, where I’m chronicling my wild ride through the 7-40 Challenge. For those just tuning in, this is my self-crafted quest: committing to seven key habits over 40 straight days to realign my life, smash through goals, and dial in that perfect daily rhythm. We’re at day 23, and let me tell you—it’s been a game-changer. I’ve shed 10 pounds, devoured an entire book (and I’m already a quarter through the next one), and religiously tracked my food intake for over three weeks. These wins might sound modest to some, but for me? They’re needed victories, stacking up like bricks in the foundation of a stronger, more intentional me.

Today, I want to zoom in on one habit that’s been a real breakthrough: my evolving relationship with food. But before we dive into the triumphs, let’s rewind a bit. Food isn’t just fuel for me—it’s a passion. I adore eating it, cooking it, inhaling its aromas, admiring its colors, and chatting endlessly about it. I daydream about meals, experiment with recipes, and revel in the joy it brings. Did I mention I really like food? Yeah, it’s that deep.

This love affair has roots that run way back to my childhood. There were sunny days and stormy ones, and during the tough stretches, food wasn’t always abundant. We never went hungry—there was always something—but options were slim, often boiling down to staples like Ramen or boxed mac and cheese. To this day, those trigger an instant “no thanks.” Those experiences etched a lesson into my soul: scarcity hurts. Fast-forward to now, and I’ve become a flavor explorer. Savory, sweet, American classics, Indian spices—I’ll try it all, make it from scratch, or hunt it down. Food became my playground, but also my crutch.

Here’s the raw truth: Pairing that early scarcity with my sheer delight in eating created an unhealthy loop. I’d overeat, pile my plate sky-high, or feel this nagging fear of “not enough,” even when my fridge was stocked. It’s irrational—I haven’t skipped a meal by accident in ages—but that old whisper lingers: Food equals comfort. Security. Safety. My amazing wife can vouch for the relapses; I’ve had moments where portion control went out the window. But as the saying goes, the first step to change is acknowledgment. I own it. I’m tackling it head-on. And I’m determined to forge a healthy bond with food, no ifs, ands, or buts.

As Aristotle wisely put it, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.”  That’s the mantra fueling my progress. 

Over the years, I’ve chipped away at this cycle, but the real magic in this challenge? A simple, liberating discovery: I can indulge in whatever I crave—as long as it fits within my daily calorie budget and macro goals. This approach hands me freedom and flexibility to enjoy those bold flavors without derailing my path. Tools like MyFitnessPal have been a lifesaver, making tracking effortless and insightful.

The key? Pinpoint the root cause, craft a straightforward plan, and build in grace for the inevitable slip-ups. Over-calories days happen—life’s not perfect—but I keep them rare, focusing on steady progress over flawless perfection. Slow and steady wins the race, right? It’s about identifying those sneaky insecurities from the past and refusing to let them steer the ship. As C.S. Lewis once said, “There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.”  Lewis was talking about Heaven (which I agree with him on), but the same principle applies. 

And let’s talk moderation—because who better to chime in than culinary icon Julia Child? “Moderation. Small helpings. Sample a little bit of everything. These are the secrets of happiness and good health.”  This mindset shift has turned food from a potential enemy into an ally, helping me savor without excess.

If my story resonates, pause and reflect: What’s anchoring you down from your dreams? Is it a lingering habit, an old insecurity popping up like an uninvited guest? What bold step can you take to face it square? For me, naming it and strategizing was the unlock. I won’t let ghosts from yesterday dictate tomorrow’s choices. 

So, here’s to progress, not perfection. Join me in the challenge—whether it’s day 1 or 23 for you. Share your hurdles in the comments; let’s inspire each other to break those cycles and step into our best selves. You’ve got this. Onward!