Most relationship problems aren't about toothpaste or love languages. They're about someone who won't let the person they chose change them. I married at 20, before I'd set, and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Autonomy Is a Lie
Category: Life
Still Out There at Two O’Clock
I manage projects for a living, and I still estimated my lumber rack wrong. I planned the build and forgot the part where it has to go on the wall.
The Gobstopper Test
The 1971 Willy Wonka was already a reality competition, and every kid who lost, lost on character. Netflix is running the same test on adults. So is every office.
The Step in Front of You
Brushed off at nineteen, stuck in a smoke-filled office, and a cancer diagnosis that came back. What got me through all three was the same thing: the step in front of me.
Glass
A sleeping bear with her paw on the glass and a gorilla doing tricks for snacks. A day at the zoo, and the two things that got me off the mat before I turned thirty.
