The Light Bearer: How Daily Creativity Unlocks Dormant Ideas

Day 31 of the 7-40 Challenge
Saturday, January 31, 2026

I’ve been carrying a book title in my head for five years: The Light Bearer.

Not just the title. A specific scene. A climactic moment I could see clearly—the kind of scene that makes you think, “That would be an amazing book if I could figure out the rest of the story.”

For five years, I tried. I attempted to develop it a few different times. I could never come up with the story elements I wanted. The pieces wouldn’t fit. So it sat there in my head, filed under “someday.”

Today, during my creative hour, The Light Bearer unlocked.

The Holding Pattern

Right now, I’m in a holding pattern with my novel revision. My wife and son are reading through the manuscript, and I’m waiting for their feedback before I dive back in.

Some of what they’ve told me so far has been necessary—things I know I need to fix. Other feedback has made me smile because the story is doing exactly what I intended it to do.

But while I wait, I’ve had time. Time I’ve been using for social media tasks, writing blog posts, working on other creative projects.

This being the weekend, I had a little more leisure time to think outside the box. And on a whim, I started working on an outline for The Light Bearer.

And because I’ve been taking time every day to do creative work, that session moved so much faster than I expected.

The pieces started pouring out. Story structure. Character arcs. How the climactic scene I’d been carrying for five years actually fits into a larger story.

It was like turning on a faucet that had been stuck for half a decade.

What Changed?

Before Day 1 of this challenge, I had been doing creative writing in the later part of last year when I started my novel. But before that? I hadn’t done hardly any creative writing in a long time.

My creative hour—and my creative bursts—really started when I began working on my novel. And they haven’t stopped.

The daily hour I spend for the 7-40 Challenge is only making it better.

Here’s what I’m realizing: I attempted to work on The Light Bearer a few different times over those five years. It never worked. I couldn’t find the story.

But since I’ve been writing fairly consistently over the past few months—daily novel revision, daily blog posts, daily creative output—it was much easier this time.

The creativity muscle got stronger. And when I turned it toward an old idea, that idea finally cooperated.

Creativity Begets More Creativity

I’m certain that other dormant ideas will float to the surface. There are projects I’ve filed under “someday” that are going to wake up just like The Light Bearer did.

Because here’s what I’m learning on Day 31: Practicing creativity begets more creativity.

When you show up daily to do creative work—whether it’s writing, painting, music, building, whatever—you’re not just completing that one project. You’re training your brain to generate ideas, connect dots, see patterns.

And then one day, you sit down to work on Project A, and Project B—the one that’s been stuck for five years—suddenly unlocks.

Almost all of my creative endeavors have been locked up in “someday.” But I keep stressing with the 7-40 Challenge that the best time to start is now. And that includes this too.

The Light Bearer didn’t unlock because I waited for inspiration. It unlocked because I’ve been showing up every single day for 31 days straight to do creative work.

The Lesson: Lightning vs. the Wall Socket

Here’s what Day 31 taught me:

Plan the time. Show up. Do the work. Creativity will follow.

Sometimes creativity hits like lightning—sudden, electric, out of nowhere.

But most of the time? You have to plug it into the wall and pull the power yourself.

You don’t wait for the muse. You show up at 9 PM and open the laptop. You carve out the hour. You do the work even when you don’t feel inspired.

And then—then—the ideas start flowing. The stuck projects unlock. The dormant stories wake up.

Not because you got lucky. Because you built the habit.

What Happens Now?

I plan to keep developing The Light Bearer as I have time between my other creative tasks. My novel revision will resume when I get feedback. The blog posts continue daily. Social media keeps rolling.

But now there’s another project in the mix. Another story demanding to be written.

And I’m not scared of that. I’m excited.

Because I’ve proven over 31 days that when you make space for creativity every single day, the creativity keeps coming.

Five years of “someday” became one Saturday morning of “today.”

That’s what happens when you stop waiting for inspiration and start building the habit.


Day 31: Complete ✓

All seven habits executed, even on an 8-degree day with ice-covered streets.

Round 1 Progress: 31/40 days (77.5%)

Nine more days until Round 1 is complete.

The Art of Asking (for Feedback): What Amanda Palmer’s TED Talk Teaches Us About Preparation

Day 30 of the 7-40 Challenge
Friday, January 30, 2026

“Put in the time. Your ideas are worth the effort.”

That’s Carmine Gallo in Talk Like TED, talking about the preparation that goes into great speeches. I’m on Day 30 of the 7-40 Challenge, reading Gallo’s book, and learning that what separates good ideas from great ones isn’t just having the idea—it’s being willing to test it.

But what does that actually look like in practice?

Let me show you what it looked like for Amanda Palmer.

The Tour Before the Tour

If you’ve watched Palmer’s TED talk “The Art of Asking,” you know how it feels—raw, authentic, like she’s having a conversation with 1,400 of her closest friends. She tells stories about being a living statue, about crowdfunding her album, about the vulnerability of asking. It doesn’t feel rehearsed. It feels real.

That’s exactly what great preparation is supposed to look like.

But here’s what you don’t see: the tour before the tour. Palmer didn’t just show up at TED and wing it. She took that talk on the road. Different venues. Different audiences. She gave variations of her prepared speech over and over, using each performance as a testing ground. Every time she delivered it, she was watching for what landed, what fell flat, where people leaned in, where they checked out.

And then—and this is the brilliant part—she used her community as her feedback engine. Palmer has spent years building genuine relationships with her fans, and she enlisted them in making this talk better. She asked them what worked. What didn’t. What confused them. What moved them. She treated her community not as passive consumers but as collaborators in refining her ideas.

This is the opposite of the lone genius model. This is preparation as conversation. Iteration as relationship. The speech got better because she let people help her make it better.

The Risk of Real Feedback

Think about what that actually means: Palmer valued her idea enough to test it. To expose it to feedback when it was still rough. To risk hearing that parts of it didn’t work.

Most people are so protective of their ideas that they either never share them at all, or they wait until they think it’s “perfect”—which usually means they’ve polished it in isolation until it’s lost all its rough, human edges.

Palmer did the opposite. She put her rough draft in front of real people and let them tell her the truth.

This applies to so much more than public speaking.

Writers do this with beta readers—trusted people who read your manuscript before it’s finished and tell you what’s working. Stand-up comics do this every single night in small clubs, working out new material in front of live audiences, adjusting based on what gets laughs. Software developers do this with user testing. Artists do this with gallery shows and studio visits.

The best work comes from feedback loops, not from isolated genius.

What This Looks Like for Me

Right now, I’m waiting for my wife and son to finish reading my novel manuscript before I dive back into revisions. I could have ignored their feedback and just polished it on my own. But my idea—this story I’ve spent so much time on—is worth the effort of getting real feedback from people I trust. Their insights will make it better than anything I could do alone.

And the 7-40 Challenge itself is a feedback loop. Every blog post I publish gets responses. Every video on social media gets views. I’m documenting my transformation in real-time, and feedback tells me what’s resonating and what’s not. I’m not waiting until Day 280 to share “perfect” results. I’m sharing the messy middle right now and letting the feedback help shape what this becomes.

That’s preparation as conversation. That’s using community as my feedback engine.

The Takeaway

Your community, your beta readers, your test audiences—they’re not a weakness in your process. They’re not a sign that you couldn’t figure it out on your own. They’re part of the preparation. They’re how good ideas become great ones.

So here’s what Day 30 taught me: If your idea is worth doing, it’s worth testing. Put it in front of people before you think it’s ready. Use your community as your feedback engine. Be willing to hear what’s not working. Iterate.

Put in the time. Your ideas are worth the effort.

And sometimes that effort looks like asking for help.


Day 30: Complete ✓

All seven habits executed. Three-quarters through Round 1.

Round 1 Progress: 30/40 days (75%)

Assessment Week begins in 11 days.

See you tomorrow for Day 31.

Today I Learned It Has a Name: Day 29 and the Power of Pathos

Day 29 of the 7-40 Challenge
Thursday, January 29, 2026

I’m reading Carmine Gallo’s Talk Like TED, and today I learned something that made me laugh.

Aristotle called it “pathos.”

I’ve been calling it “finding the hook.”

Same thing.

What Pathos Actually Means

Pathos is the emotional appeal in a presentation. It’s the moment when the audience stops analyzing and starts feeling. When they see themselves in your story. When they care.

Gallo breaks down how the world’s best TED speakers use pathos. They don’t lead with data. They lead with stories that create emotional hooks.

And I realized: I already do this.

“There Is Always a Story”

In 2016, I gave a Toastmasters presentation called “There Is Always a Story.”

I opened with a mistake: As an 18-year-old college freshman working for the student newspaper, I brought a date to cover a guest speaker. I cared more about her than doing my job, so I snuck out early.

The next day, my advisor asked, “Did you get my story?”

I said, “I listened. I just didn’t think there was much of a story.”

She exploded: “Are you out of your mind? He was a rescue worker at the Oklahoma City bombing! What do you mean there’s no story? There is always a story.”

That was the hook.

I called the man. He was a youth pastor who loved his life. When the bombing happened, he wanted to help. But at the site, he wasn’t prepared—rubble, bodies, parts of bodies. The team’s morale was crushed when they learned it was an American who had been the cause of the carnage..

Not long after, he found himself on a dark highway at 118 miles an hour, hands white-knuckled, heading for a bridge embankment. The pain had to end.

But the wheel pulled back. Again and again. Someone was praying. Their prayers were answered.

He realized he needed help. Eventually, he started helping others with his story.

When I told that story in my presentation, I wasn’t talking journalism. I was asking the audience: “What story are you telling with your life?”

I used the emotions of the story I told to challenge others to use their stories for good. That’s pathos.

How This Applies to the 7-40 Challenge

I’m creating content every day now, and I’m realizing:

The 7-40 Challenge isn’t compelling because of the system. It’s compelling because of the story.

People don’t care that I’m doing seven habits for 40 days. They care that I’m a 47-year-old two-time cancer survivor who wasted 20 years writing “someday I’ll…” notes and finally started.

They care that I fell in a winter storm but didn’t quit.

They care that I’m doing this for my wife and son—not for fame.

They care because the story is really about them and not me. Hopefully I am just giving an example of something that they could do. Maybe even better than I am doing it.

That’s the emotional hook. That’s pathos.

What I’ve Been Doing Without Knowing It

For years as a Toastmaster, I’ve made people feel before I asked them to think. I opened with relatable human moments, then built to the bigger question.

Today, Gallo reminded me this isn’t accidental. It’s Aristotle’s framework. It’s how the best communicators make ideas stick.

And it’s what I need to keep doing with the 7-40 Challenge.

Find the emotional hook. Connect the audience to the topic. Make them feel before you make them think.

That’s how stories stick. That’s how transformation becomes contagious.

And that’s what Day 29 taught me.


Day 29: Complete ✓

All seven habits executed (walking + reading + creative work done).

Round 1 Progress: 29/40 days (72.5%)

You can watch my Toastmasters presentation “There Is Always a Story” here: https://youtu.be/9-HtN0kA3pI

See you tomorrow for Day 30.

Do Not Grow Weary: Day 28 and the Setback That Won’t Stop Me

Day 28 of the 7-40 Challenge
Wednesday, January 28, 2026

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for at the right time we will reap a harvest, if we do not give up.”
— Galatians 6:9

Yesterday, I wrote about the rules that make excellence possible. I laid out my seven daily habits—the clear structure that is helping me become the husband, father, and professional I’m meant to be.

I know what I need to do. I’ve set the rules for myself. The system is working.

And then life threw me a curveball.

The Setback

A few days ago, during the winter storm, I fell. Hard. I landed on my right hand.

To say it’s bruised is an understatement.

I’ve been trying to push through. I modified my workouts. I adjusted my grip. I told myself it would get better if I just kept going.

Today, my chiropractor told me the truth: I need to lay off lifting weights for at least a week to give my hand a chance to heal.

And here’s the question I had to ask myself: Do I let this setback derail me, or do I keep moving forward?

Why Getting Fit Isn’t Optional

I’m 47 years old. Getting fit is a must because getting older is no joke. I don’t move like I used to.

This isn’t about vanity. This isn’t about looking good for summer. This is about being able to show up fully for my wife and son. This is about not being the guy who can’t play with his grandkids someday because he didn’t take care of himself now.

Time is precious. I can’t afford to waste it.

And that’s what makes this setback so frustrating. I know I need this. I know every day counts. And now my body is telling me to stop—temporarily, but still.

So what do I do?

The Wisdom of Having a Plan

Here’s what I’ve learned over 28 days: If we’re smart, we have a plan in place for setbacks because we know setbacks are coming.

That’s what setbacks do. They come.

In my 2026 Vision Doc, I wrote out a crisis management protocol:

  • Family crisis: Full priority override
  • Personal illness or injury: Keep all habits except exercise if rest needed
  • Everything else: Spit out the blood and keep going

Today falls into category two.

My hand needs to heal. My chiropractor gave me professional guidance. Ignoring that isn’t toughness—it’s stupidity.

So I’m resting today. No exercise. No weightlifting. No yoga. Just rest.

But here’s the key: I’m still doing everything else.

✓ Bible study
✓ Calorie tracking
✓ Water
✓ Reading (Talk Like TED is firing me up)
✓ Gratitude
✓ Creative work (writing this post)
✗ Exercise (resting today)

Six out of seven habits completed. The system holds.

Tomorrow: Back to Forward Momentum

Day 29, I’ll pick up with a full hour of walking or walking and yoga. No weights until my hand is healed and my chiropractor clears me.

The weightlifting will wait. The 13-week plan will adjust. The rules I set for myself yesterday? They’re still in place. I’m just applying wisdom to how I execute them.

Because the goal isn’t to prove I’m tough by ignoring my body. The goal is to become the best version of myself for my family—and that requires sustainable health, not reckless pushing through pain.

Do Not Grow Weary

Paul’s words in Galatians 6:9 keep echoing in my head today:

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for at the right time we will reap a harvest, if we do not give up.”

The setback is frustrating. The pause is annoying. The lost week of lifting feels like wasted time.

But I’m not giving up.

I’m not growing weary.

Because I know the harvest is coming.

Twenty-eight days of consistent execution. Weight loss trending in the right direction. Novel revision progressing. Social media breakthrough in motion. Daily blog posts stacking up.

One week of modified exercise doesn’t erase 28 days of proof.

The rules are still in place. The system is still working. The mission is still clear.

I just have to be wise enough to know when to rest so I can keep going for the long haul.

What Do We Do When Setbacks Come?

We do what we planned to do.

We don’t panic. We don’t quit. We don’t let one obstacle derail the entire mission.

We adjust. We rest when needed. We keep moving forward with what we can do while we heal what we can’t.

And we remember: The harvest is coming if we do not give up.

Day 28 looks different than I wanted it to. But it’s not a failure. It’s wisdom in action.

Tomorrow, I walk. Next week, I lift again. The long game continues.

Do not grow weary of doing good.

The harvest is coming.


Day 28: Complete ✓

Six out of seven habits executed. Resting wisely to fight another day.

Round 1 Progress: 28/40 days (70%)

See you tomorrow for Day 29.

The Rules That Make Excellence Possible: Day 27

Day 27 of the 7-40 Challenge
Tuesday, January 27, 2026

I’m reading Carmine Gallo’s book Talk Like TED right now, and in Chapter 1, he asks a question that stopped me on my walk this morning:

“What makes your heart sing?”

The answer came immediately: Being a husband to to my bride. Being a father to my son.

That’s what makes my heart sing personally.

But then he asks another question: “What is your obsession? What are you passionate about?”

And that’s where things get interesting.

The Answer I Didn’t Expect

My obsession isn’t separate from what makes my heart sing. They’re connected.

I’m obsessed with becoming the best version of myself—not for followers, not for book sales, not for speaking fees—but because I can’t be the husband she deserves if I’m dragging.

I can’t be the father my son needs if I’m physically exhausted, mentally foggy, emotionally drained, or spiritually disconnected.

The better I become—physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually—the more I can show up as the man they need. The more I can model the kind of intentional, loving marriage that’s lacking in so much of the world today.

And here’s the thing: I can’t fragment myself. I can’t be excellent at home and mediocre at work. I can’t be disciplined with my spiritual life and careless with my body.

Excellence has to run through everything, or it doesn’t run through anything.

What My Day Job Taught Me About Transformation

I’m a data professional. I’ve been doing this work for over 18 years.

And here’s what I know from my day job: There is process. There is order. There are rules.

Data management isn’t chaos. It’s systematic. Organized. Deliberate.

When you have clear rules—agreed-upon ways to do things—everyone knows how to play the game. Everyone knows what success looks like. Everyone has a shot at excellence.

If I don’t know the traffic laws, I’ll run into people.

If I don’t know the rules of football, I’ll tackle the wrong person and the other team will win.

If I don’t have clear habits, I’ll drift through life wondering why nothing ever changes.

Rules aren’t there to penalize us. Rules are there to help us play the game better.

And by knowing the rules and following the system—the workflow, the structure—we actually have an opportunity to be excellent.

The 7-40 Challenge: The Rules of My Game

So what are the rules I’ve set for myself?

I have to be spiritually healthy.
I have to be physically healthy.
I have to be mentally healthy.
I have to be emotionally healthy.

Because if I’m healthy in those four areas, I can do all the major things I need to do in my life: be a husband, be a father, be a good worker, be a good friend.

That’s why the seven habits aren’t random. They’re strategic:

  1. Bible Study & Prayer → Spiritual health
  2. Exercise (1 hour daily) → Physical health
  3. Calorie Tracking → Physical health
  4. Water (100oz daily) → Physical health
  5. Reading/Learning → Mental health
  6. Gratitude Practice → Emotional health
  7. Creative Work → Mental and emotional health

These aren’t restrictions. They’re the agreed-upon structure that makes excellence possible.

Just like the data governance frameworks I use at work, just like traffic laws, just like the rules of any game—the 7-40 Challenge works because it has rules.

And when you know the game, you can play it well.

How This Helps 1,000 People

Here’s why this matters for my mission to help 1,000 people:

I’m not trying to inspire anyone with motivational speeches. I’m not selling quick fixes or secret formulas.

I’m defining the rules of the game clearly so that anyone who wants to play can play.

Seven habits. Forty days. Analyze. Rinse. Repeat 7 times.

That’s it. That’s the game.

You don’t need to figure out your own system. You don’t need to guess what works. The rules are clear. I am proving the framework as I go.

And just like at my day job, when you define the process clearly, everyone else can follow it too.

That’s not restriction. That’s freedom.

Freedom to focus on execution instead of decision fatigue. Freedom to know exactly what “winning the day” looks like. Freedom to become excellent because the path is clear.

What Gallo’s Question Revealed

So when Carmine Gallo asked, “What makes your heart sing?” I thought the answer was simple: my family.

But what I realized on my walk this morning is that the 7-40 Challenge IS about my family.

It’s about becoming the man she deserves and the father my son needs.

It’s about not fragmenting myself—being one integrated person who brings the same commitment to excellence to every area of life.

And it’s about using the same process discipline that makes me excellent at data work to become even more excellent as a husband, father, and human. And vice versa.

The rules don’t limit me. They make excellence possible.

And if they work for me, they can work for you too.

Because the game has rules. And when you know the rules, you can win.


Day 27: Complete ✓

All seven habits executed. The rules are working.

Round 1 Progress: 27/40 days (67.5%)

See you tomorrow for Day 28.