Tend the Yard

Day 68 of 280 | The 7-40 Challenge

I spent over six hours outside today. Not sunbathing. Working.

We hauled tree clippings to the dump. I mowed the entire yard. We hung gates on my wife’s garden. And by the time I came inside, I was sunburned, sore, and more satisfied than I’ve been in a while.

Which is funny, because in my younger years, I absolutely hated yard work.


We moved into this house in June of 2025. We’re the second owners — the previous owner had it for 23 years. She had fruit trees planted, landscaping installed, and a home that was well-loved for a long time. But somewhere in the last several years, things fell into disrepair. She moved on, and the yard didn’t move with her.

When we got here, we found trees that were overgrown. Vines climbing up into the branches. Wire supports from when the trees were young — still wrapped around the base, now growing into the bark because nobody ever removed them. Beautiful, healthy trees being quietly damaged by neglect.

The grass had weeds woven through it. The landscaping needed major remediation. The bones were good, but the care had stopped.

Sound familiar?


My wife — who is a far more skilled gardener than I will ever be — went to work on those trees. She pruned them back hard. Cut away the dead wood. Removed the vines. Freed the trunks from the wire that was choking them. Some of those trees look like they’ve had major surgery.

They may not be as fruitful this year. But they’ll be healthy. And in the years to come, they’ll produce more than they ever did when they were overgrown and neglected.

Last year, before any of this work was done, we picked over 75 pounds of apples off just two of our nine apple trees. Trees that hadn’t been tended to in years. Imagine what happens now that we’ve actually taken care of them.


I couldn’t stop thinking about this today while I was mowing.

Because this yard is my life.

For twenty years, I had good bones. I had talent. I had ideas. I had desire. But things had fallen into disrepair. Habits I should have been tending to were overgrown. Wires I should have removed years ago — old ways of thinking, old excuses, old patterns — were growing into the bark. I was still producing some fruit, but nowhere near what was possible if someone had just taken the time to prune.

That’s what the last 68 days have been. Pruning.

Cutting away the things that don’t need to be there. Making sure the state of my life is in order. Organizing every day so that the conditions are right for growth. Trimming back activities that weren’t producing anything so the ones that matter can thrive.

It’s not glamorous work. It’s not the kind of thing that makes a good Instagram post. But it’s the work that makes everything else possible.


I started reading Todd Henry’s Die Empty today while I was mowing. And the title — which sounds morbid if you don’t know the context — is actually one of the most inspiring ideas I’ve encountered.

Henry’s argument is simple: as a creative person, you want to have been so creative, so often, that when your time finally comes, there’s nothing left inside that didn’t get out. You tended the garden. You grew the fruit. You pulled the vines. You planted the seeds. And at the end of the season, there’s nothing else that could have been done.

You die empty. Not because you had nothing. Because you gave everything.


That’s exactly what I’m aiming for. Not just through this challenge, but through the way I choose to live.

I know I was put here to do important things. To take care of people. To love people. To inspire people. To be more and do more than what might meet the eye.

I want to be a good steward of what I’ve been given. I want to make my home beautiful. I want to make my property beautiful. I want to provide for my family. I want to be generous with others. I want to be creative enough that all the things I’ve been put here to do actually get done.

I want to tend the yard — the literal one and the metaphorical one — so that when the season is over, the harvest speaks for itself.

I want to die empty. Because I offered myself as a living sacrifice, one that was pleasing to God in the end.


Day 68 Scorecard:

✅ Bible study and prayer
✅ Exercise (6 hours of yard work)
✅ Reading (Die Empty — Todd Henry + Keep Going — Austin Kleon)
✅ Calories tracked
✅ Water (100 oz)
✅ Gratitude
✅ BiblePictures365
✅ Creative hour


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Odd Things I’m Grateful For: Day 34 and the Space Gratitude Fills

Day 34 of the 7-40 Challenge
Tuesday, February 3, 2026

I got to work at 6:00 AM this morning. I didn’t leave my office until 4:30 PM. I spent most of my day in meetings or working through data issues. It was mentally taxing.

But because of the program I have in place, I was able to get the things I needed to do done while also tackling all the unexpected things that came up.

It’s ingrained in my head now: I have things I need to accomplish every day. Even amidst the chaos of a busy workday, I track my calories. I drink my water. When I have an opportunity to get up and go for a walk, I do.

Just knowing I have things I need to accomplish every day—even in the chaos—is very beneficial.

I’m exhausted tonight. But Day 34 is complete.

Why Gratitude Is One of My Seven Daily Habits

Here’s the thought that’s been rolling around in my head today: Why do I focus so hard on gratitude as one of my seven daily habits?

What is it about practicing being and staying thankful that makes it an absolute must?

I don’t know about you, but I find that when I’m being thankful, it’s really hard to stay mad about anything. Whether it’s being cut off on the road, or somebody being rude to me at work, or just not getting done what I wanted to do—if I take a moment to take a deep breath and express gratitude for something in my life, I find that it’s really hard to stay angry.

It’s hard to let those negative emotions take over if gratitude is my natural position.

There’s Only So Much Space

Here’s what I’ve discovered over 34 days: When I get frustrated about things—whether at work, at home, or anywhere else—I don’t stay there very long if I say thank you or show appreciation for something.

It’s like there’s only so much space. And gratitude fills up more than anger does.

I had an opportunity to practice this today. There was a miscommunicated topic, and it would have been easy to get frustrated. I didn’t initially react properly. But then I apologized and tried to set the bar for myself higher by choosing a different path.

One of my new favorite things to say at work is: “We have fun jobs.”

One, because I do. But two, because if I look at it as something I get to do, it doesn’t stay something I have to do for very long.

That reframe changes everything.

Odd Things I’m Grateful For

So tonight, I’d like to tell you some odd things that I’m grateful for.

I’m Grateful That I’m Overweight

I know that sounds odd. But what it means is I have had plenty of food and plenty of downtime over the years—of which I should be thankful, because I’ve never missed a meal.

Have I needed to be better and do better with the meals I’ve had? Certainly. But I can say without a shadow of a doubt, I am grateful because I have never gone hungry.

I’m Grateful That I Have a Mess in My Office That Needs to Be Cleaned Up

Because it means I have a space of my own where I get to be creative, think through tough problems, and work on things that are important to me.

Sometimes these messes are just evidence that I’ve been in here trying my best to do something good.

I’ve heard the joke said before that a clean desk is the sign of a sick mind. Well, a messy desk in the reverse must be the sign of a brilliant mind. And I’m looking pretty brilliant right now—but I really need to work on that.

I’m Grateful for an Injured Wrist

Because it’s given me an opportunity to practice persevering when I really haven’t wanted to.

It would have been just as easy to pout, get frustrated, get upset. Let life overwhelm me and derail my goals. I just don’t want to do that.

So if this pain in my wrist or my hand has to serve as a reminder that I have things to do, and that sometimes getting things done means overcoming discomfort—no, all the time that’s what it means—then I’ll take it.

Everything Worth Doing Is Hard

I heard Gary Vaynerchuk say one day: “People get frustrated because things are hard.” And he said, “Everything worth doing in life is hard.”

I really have to agree with him.

It doesn’t mean it’s not worth doing. It just means that the good things are most likely going to be difficult. Because if they were easy, I’m not sure they would be the good things.

When We Position Ourselves with Gratitude

When we position ourselves with a grateful heart, when we position ourselves to be thankful, I really feel like we open ourselves up for so much more that can come to us.

We see things with much clearer eyes. We’re not fogged over. We can actually be pragmatic about what’s coming at us.

Take a good long look at where you are right now.

I bet there’s more in front of you to be thankful for than you realize.

Even on a brutal 10.5-hour workday. Even with a messy office. Even with an injured wrist. Even when you’re exhausted.

Gratitude fills more space than anger does.

And when gratitude is your default position, it’s really hard for the negative stuff to take root.

That’s Day 34.


Day 34: Complete ✓

All seven habits executed, even on a mentally taxing day.

Round 1 Progress: 34/40 days (85%)

Six more days until Round 1 is complete.

See you tomorrow for Day 35.

Day 6 of the 7-40 Challenge: Embracing Gratitude in a World That Moves Too Fast

Hello there! Welcome to Day 6 of the 7-40 Challenge. If you’re just joining me, this is my journey through 7 daily habits over 40 days of intentional living, growth, and self-reflection. Today, we’re diving deep into something that’s often overlooked in our hustle-filled lives: gratitude.

In a world that’s constantly bombarding us with notifications, deadlines, and distractions, it’s all too easy to take things for granted. We rush through our days without pausing to appreciate the simple miracles around us—the breath in our lungs, the people who light up our lives, or the opportunities that come our way. But here’s the stark truth: it could all vanish in an instant. Life is fragile, and I’ve learned that lesson the hard way.

A Brush with the Edge: My Wake-Up Call

I don’t have to dig too far into my past to remember a time when gratitude wasn’t just a nice-to-have—it became my lifeline. Seven years ago, I was struck down by a serious illness that required immediate medical intervention. The doctors were upfront: there was a real  chance I wouldn’t make it through. In those harrowing moments, everything shifted. It wasn’t just about surviving; it was about rebaselining my entire existence.

That experience stripped away the noise and forced me to confront what truly matters. My relationship with God? Non-negotiable. My wife and son? The absolute core of my world. My closest friends? Irreplaceable. The way I spend my time each day, and the work I pour my energy into? Suddenly, the things I spent too much time worrying about didn’t make sense anymore. It was like hitting the reset button on life, and emerging on the other side with clearer priorities.

Fast forward to today, and I’m still riding that wave of profound thankfulness. I’m grateful for my deepened faith, for the unwavering support of my family, for friends who show up in the big and small moments, and for work that challenges me while bringing genuine fulfillment. Gratitude isn’t just a feeling for me—it’s a daily practice that keeps me grounded.

The Obligation of Gratitude: Leading by Example

Here’s where it gets real: feeling grateful comes with a sense of responsibility. I see it as an obligation—and even a personal challenge—to model this mindset for others. In a society that loves to play the victim card, it’s tempting to let life just “happen” to us. We complain about the traffic, the workload, the endless scroll of bad news. We forget to choose a posture of gratefulness, slipping into autopilot and taking everything for granted.

But that’s not the path I want to walk. It’s not who I aspire to be. Instead, I choose to start each day with intention:

  • Gratitude to God: For the gift of another sunrise, another chance to live fully. He saved me, forgave me and breathes life into me every morning, and I refuse to overlook that.
  • Loving my family well: My wife and son are my anchors. I make it a point to remind them daily how much they mean to me—through words, actions, and undivided attention. 
  • Being a true friend: Not the surface-level kind, but one who listens deeply, cares genuinely, and shows up when it counts. Life’s too short for shallow connections.
  • Doing work that matters: I strive to tackle projects that challenge me, inspire growth, and make a positive impact. And I aim to do it with excellence, because why settle for less?

Gratitude isn’t passive—it’s active. It’s a choice that transforms how we navigate the world, turning potential pitfalls into opportunities for appreciation.

Your Turn: What Lights Up Your Gratitude List?

So, I turn the spotlight to you. In the midst of your own chaos, what are you truly grateful for today? Maybe it’s the coffee that kickstarts your morning, a supportive partner, a healthy body, or a dream you’re chasing. Whatever it is, big or small, let’s celebrate it.

Drop your thoughts in the comments below—I’d genuinely love to hear from you. Sharing our gratitude not only amplifies it but inspires others to pause and reflect. Who knows? Your story might be the spark someone else needs.

Thanks for joining me on this leg of the 7-40 Challenge. Let’s keep pushing forward with hearts full of thanks. Tomorrow brings a new day—stay tuned!

What are you grateful for? Let’s build a community of appreciation right here.